Welcome to Sunday, the day when you can sit for a second and think about your week.

If you’re anything like me, in your mind you gather up all the people you love and sweep over them, and wonder whether they’re okay.

Partner?

Teens one and two?

Mother who has been to the doctor a lot recently?

Friend who is worried about her colonoscopy?

Last week I stuck this sign on our fridge, just as a general reminder to anyone who drops by.

There’s a difference between having a problem and being a problem.

Does someone out there need this reminder?? Let’s get clear with the people we love and tell them this: YOU are not the problem. The problem is the problem.

Together, we can tackle anything.

Enjoy your weekend, and love the people you’re lucky enough to love.

Catherine x

PS.

A flower-arranging tip for supermarket roses, classic 1980s spinach dip, and a reminder about who you are!

Love this photo my Instagram friend Elizabeth took…I want to do this for a friend, and also be the friend who finds this! She wrote, “I have so much love in my life, known and anonymous.”