Are you bi?

I get this question a lot. It surprises me still.

Maybe it isn’t the question that surprises me. Maybe I’m thrown because my answer is no. Like, a resounding no. And people are surprised by that. And then it’s a thing where I feel the need to explain and we end up in TMIville.

I’m pretty open about being attracted to masculine of center women and trans guys. I’ve been with both and am actively dating both during this wild and crazy singledom thing I’m doing. To some people, that p...