Also:  What if it is impossible to win by not being yourself?  Suppose you “win” by not being you?  Is that winning?  Look around.  The billionaires are looking very sad.  They have all the money we need to fix our teeth, pay our bills, have our surgeries, send our children to good schools, and keep ourselves out of cardboard boxes on the street.  They pay more for shoes than we pay for rent.  Who are they?  Do they know anymore?  Did they ever?  Meditation is good for this kind of query.  There...