A believer can fail to mature in their walk with God because of an inability to say no to people and draw boundaries. When people benefit from your lack of boundaries, you inevitably get drained and you feel used. But when you finally muster up courage and draw the requisite boundaries, some of these people who were benefitting from your yes-man syndrome may accuse you of being selfish. This may stir you, instill fear in you and cause you to want to let them have their way.If you do that, noth...