I’ve often joked that if I were to write a parenting book I’d call it Parent Like A Librarian.

At the library, there are strict rules for behavior that create an environment in which anyone can learn, but there is no agenda, no plan — only time, space, and resources.

The librarian is there to serve whoever comes through the door by connecting them with what they need.

The librarian creates and maintains a collection of materials, makes spaces in which people can work and study, and curates prog...