Real love is not like the movies. Despite what we think love should be, love really is only one certain way. All types of love require the same foundation. One built on communication, trust, friendship and compromise. Seems simple, right?   Wrong.   Love is a mess; but it's up to us to turn it into a beautiful clutter. What makes relationships more difficult, is the fact that people tend to look way too far ahead, and their insecurities tend to cause them to focus on what could possibly go