Diana
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Francesco Dimitri:
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(view spoiler)[I liked The Book of Hidden Things a lot. It was an absolute page-turner for me. However, I would like to ask why it is so female-unfriendly? Italy, machismo, I get all this, and I appreciate it is from the point of view of these male narrators. I am fine with that. However, lead females in the book are either sex objects, or mad/morally-loose persons. As a female reading it, I felt almost insulted and belittled by it. (hide spoiler)]
Francesco Dimitri
Hi Diana,
it's an important question. To be honest, I am not sure I agree with your reading of the story. In a book told from the POV of three ineffectual, immature, men, some of the female characters are the people who have it together; the ones who act as grown-ups. Anna, Elena, even Concetta, are all way more mature than 'the boys'.
Only one female character is mad - but she is not mad in any nice, funny way; she is a troubled person who deserves far more respect and compassion than she receives. She is a victim, yes; but, to make one example, Fabio's father, old, lonely, and with dementia, is as much of a victim as she is, and he is male.
Besides, when you say that some characters are 'morally loose', you are defining your own moral values rather than theirs. Though I have the utmost respect for your morals, I guess we can agree that morals are rarely absolute; what looks morally loose to you might seem just about right to me (and to my wife, a firm, active feminist, who read the book carefully and helped me with it).
Then again, no story is everybody's jam; and if mine made you feel belittled, I hope what you read next, whatever that might be, will make you feel twice powerful :)
it's an important question. To be honest, I am not sure I agree with your reading of the story. In a book told from the POV of three ineffectual, immature, men, some of the female characters are the people who have it together; the ones who act as grown-ups. Anna, Elena, even Concetta, are all way more mature than 'the boys'.
Only one female character is mad - but she is not mad in any nice, funny way; she is a troubled person who deserves far more respect and compassion than she receives. She is a victim, yes; but, to make one example, Fabio's father, old, lonely, and with dementia, is as much of a victim as she is, and he is male.
Besides, when you say that some characters are 'morally loose', you are defining your own moral values rather than theirs. Though I have the utmost respect for your morals, I guess we can agree that morals are rarely absolute; what looks morally loose to you might seem just about right to me (and to my wife, a firm, active feminist, who read the book carefully and helped me with it).
Then again, no story is everybody's jam; and if mine made you feel belittled, I hope what you read next, whatever that might be, will make you feel twice powerful :)
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SneakyReader
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Francesco Dimitri:
Thank you for writing the Hidden Things. I just adored it. Great characters, so real - and adult, for some reason the fantasy has been overrun with teens lately, and real magic - uncomfortable, weird and destructive. Also, I really liked the male friends group, for some reason a very rare thing in fiction, its always women friend groups that a novel follows. When is the next novel coming out?
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