Deb - I read your quote "“It was one of those times you feel a sense of loss, even though you didn't have something in the first place. I guess that's what disappointment is- a sense of loss for something you never had.” I'd like to ask your permission to use it in the beginning of a chapter of a book I'm writing. Please let me know if I may use it and if so, how you would like to be credited? Thank you.