Under The Sun Every Day Just Comes & Goes discussion

My rants and musings....

One from DA.


Christmas. I hate the music. I hate the buying of gifts. I hate the commercials. I hate having to get the entire family together. I hate decorating. I hate the tinsle and bulbs. I hate the stockings. I hate the tree skirts. I hate the bullshit signs that say "Put the Christ back in Christmas" FUCK YOU Get your own damn holiday! For a group of people who hate pagans you sure stole a lot of our shit. I hate the night before Christmas. I hate all the bullshit sappy ass TV movies. You know what If you were really that nice of a person you'd do that shit year round, motherfucker, not just one day a year! I hate having to budget bills, extra food, gifts, extra gas money, money to replace broken lights and ornaments. AHHH!!!
Most of all I hate the bull shit of having to censor what you say. "Merry Christmas" "Happy Hanukkah" are no longer allowed. You know what bitch I took the extra fucking time to wish you well you better respond with a thanks or you too. Fuck this crap about "Happy Holidays."

That what's wrong with this country. We PC everything. This show is too violent we better censor it. Fuck you leave Tom and Jerry alone. The kids are going to get low self esteem if they don't get a trophy. Fuck you they lost. Real life doesn't reward 2nd place and we should not give them what they want when they didn't EARN it. It's not polite to say retarded or Gay or blah fucking blah. You know what QUIT CHANGING THE 'PROPER' FUCKING TERM FOR THEM EVERY 6 FUCKING MONTHS.

It's unattractive for a woman to cuss, wear all black, and smoke. Fuck you! I am what I am and I couldn't give a rat's ass if you liked me for it or not.

You should really start acting your age, you are a mother after all. WHAT? Fuck you. My kids are happy and well adjusted. They have a mother who will sit down and blow shit up with them on what ever game system. They have a mother who will spend 3 fucking hours making a home cooked meal (not a store bought toss the shit in the microwave crap) Not one who stops at a fast food place because they don't have time to cook. My kids get fast food once every few months. Why? Hell I don't know maybe cuz I like to cook. I hate that fucking term "act your age." What I'm not allowed to have fun? I'm not allowed to goof off and joke around because I'm a mother?

How can you be a productive member of society if you do not act like an adult? Fuck off. My bills get paid on time or before time. I have zero credit card debit. I own my house, land and my cars. Can you say the same? Hmm?? If you act stuck up all the damn time you end up with ulcers, stress and high blood pressure.

Most of all I hate people butting in your damn business. What is your life so fucking boring you have to see what I'm doing? So you just want to make someone else miserable to justify your puny existence here on earth? Grow the fuck up. Take care of your own shit before you try to mess in mine. I'm the kind of person that if you fuck me over. You better find a good hiding place, because I do not let shit slide. I will end up hunting you down and either give you a good beating or make you paranoid as fuck trying to figure out when I will strike.

That is another thing. Why the hell are we so law suit crazy? Seriously? You get your ass beat for being a jackass and then you turn around and act like more of a punk trying to take shit that's not yours. Dude, if you quit with the jackassery in the first place you wouldn't have had your ass handed to you on a platter to begin with. Now you are going to try to be that much more of a dick by suing the person who kicked your ass? Yeah, how's that gonna work? You get their shit and guess what? Another ass beating, hope you really enjoyed the second one cuz I'm sure it was better than the first. :)

Another from DA

Bras. I hate them. They are uncomfortable. If you happen to find one that fits perfectly, it usually falls apart quickly and it takes you forever to find a suitable replacement. Plus, what is up with all the cute ones being only available for those girls in the “itty-bitty titty comity.” What you (the makers) think that a woman can only have a cup size AAA - D? Really? Jackasses. Have you seen the bras for us overly endowed? They look like something your grandmother would wear. Seriously! They are unflattering. The clasp at the back is at least two inches wide and the straps are just as bad.

While I’m on the subject. A big F U to those girls who judge us based on our cup size. Now I have heard comments like “How much did those cost?” “I bet you 50 bucks they are fake.” And my favorite “She has big boobs she must be a whore or stripper”
Seriously? Just because you are a carpenters dream does not give you the right to judge me. I am sorry that you were shafted in the breast department. I really am. But get over it or Piss off!


Now on to another subject. Long Legs. What is the fascination with them? They suck. You can never find jeans that fit both your waist and inseam that complement everything. It really is a pain in the ass and seriously time consuming, having to shave half your damn body every two days. You guys try it for a month and see how frustrated you get.

Gin, let's be best buds, Kay? Those are beautiful rants. (:

I agree with you about the legs thing. I think that's why they invented floods; so people like us can pretend we look good with short pants.

Unfortunately the boob thing goes the other way. I pretty much have none, so I'm just a sick who has yet to go through puberty. You're not hot unless you have boobs. But if they're too big then you're a whore.

Yay society that we all pretend we're not a part of!

XD

Trust me, there are guys out there who find big breasts unattractive. Me, for example. I mean, if they're there, fine...but if they're too big...nuh-uh. Nasty.

When will people learn that it is not a problem with the weapon but with the attacker? Murderers have been around since the dawn of time. As our civilization progresses so does their preferred method of killing. Will banning certain items stop them? No, it will just have them change their MO. Will arming every able-body person stop them? No, it will just cause more victims being killed with their own weapon. Then how do we stop this? If I had the answer to that, I would not be ranting about everyone trying to place the blame on each other.

The truth is people will always find a way to harm each other, whether it is by words or assault weapons. We have not evolved beyond our differences and petty insecurities. We probably won’t achieve that kind of enlightenment for another millennia or more. The best thing we can do is offer the best mental health care out there. I’m not talking about the “hey lets pump them full with so many drugs they can’t tell what year it is” care we have now either.


We as a society have moved away from the basics. We no longer put emphasis on family and friends, but on the latest gadgets, reality stars, and who is doing who in Hollywood. We have become so obsessed with material objects and other people’s lives, that we forget that the best things in life are right beside you.


What does any of that have to do with the previous subject? Well, we are so absorbed in this life filled with new “whosists” and “whatsists” galore. We miss the little signs that our loved ones might have something going on with them. We miss the moments of depression, anger, anxiety, bullying, or paranoia. We overlook our family and friends. They are there only if you need them for something. How many of the attackers of these heinous crimes in the past 20 years have been subjected to bullying and mental illness? The sad truth that no one wants to talk about it, they could have been stopped before their illness and angst progressed that far. Only if someone had taken the time to pay attention to them.

I am tired of people pointing the finger at one group or another instead of looking at the big picture. We as Society are to blame for this lack of respect for human life. We need to realize that weapons are not to blame WE ARE.

Rant….Kids these days

There are many things that royally piss me off but nothing more so than a snippy self-indulgent arrogant kid does. Those children that bitch and complain because their parents just like don’t get them or like whatever. The same kids that demand respect but offer none in return. Those little shits that flip out on their parents if they have to actually do a chore. Oh, no it’s the end of the world because you have to take the trash out. Guess what? You little asshats need to learn something called responsibility and hard work. Because once you are out of your parent’s house, you have to grow the fuck up and earn the money for those little toys you like to play with so much.

Seriously? What the hell happened to teens? I’ll tell you what freaking happened. Parents stopped being parents and try too hard to be “friends.”

Yes, I might let my kids slide with the occasional swear word or allow them to be a smart ass. BUT you know what? They know my word is law in this house. They know that all hell would break loose if they spoke to me with blatant disrespect. My kids are well-mannered little demons. By that, I mean my son holds open the door for children, old people and those girls he thinks are hot. He pulls out the chair for his sister at dinner. He says please, thank you, yes ma’am and no ma’am. He stands when a woman enters the room. He doesn’t spit in front of females. (Moms excluded) He is in all reality a little “Gentleman.” My daughter says the same things. She also sits like a lady, refuses to gossip about anyone and she dresses her age. (Shocker I know. BTW, I haven’t picked out her clothes in a few years.)

Rant starting…..

My step kids did something yesterday that made me see red. Now I have a reward system in my house. You do a chore you get paid x amount of money. After you reach $20, you get to spend it on whatever or put it in your savings. The two step kids have to follow this rule when they are here.

Well yesterday, Remy and Aira decided to spend some money. (Their money.) Abby and Drew happened to be with us. They wanted to go to GameStop to pick out a game. Remy grabbed his wallet and Aira her purse. We walked in the store Remy picked up Metal Gear Rising Revengeance with his cash.

Now Drew sat there with a game in his hand waiting for me to take it and buy it. (Not asking or anything) The dude at the register was getting ready to get the game and put it in the case when I stopped him. I looked at Drew and asked if he had the money for it. He tells me no. So I say go put it up. He starts whining but you got Remy that game. I stopped him before he could finish and enlightened him that Remy paid with his own money that he earned. He actually tried to throw a temper tantrum. Keep in mind this kid is 12 so to be 13 in September. I shook my head at him and told the other three to go to the car. I then apologized to everyone in the store for this kid acting like a spoiled little shit who felt entitled to get anything he wanted because his mother and grandparents try to buy his affection. I then turned and left him in the store and went to the car. I started the thing and waited for him to get in.

I then took them to target so Aira could get something. Well Abby pretty much did the same damn thing Drew did except she tossed some makeup (big no no in my house due to her age) in the cart. Aira pays for her jewelry and hat. I had the cashier take the makeup out. Abby didn’t realize it until they were in the car going through the bags. She asked me where it was. I told her it was back in the store. That if she wanted to buy it with her money she could. She says she doesn’t have any. I say well earn some. she pulls the one thing all step parents hate Well my mom would have got it for me. It was just a little makeup anyway. It’s not like Aira couldn’t have bought it for me.

I told her. (After biting my lips so hard, it bled) She was right. I was not her mother. Aira will not spend her hard-earned money on something like makeup for a young girl who has no business wearing Vamp red lipstick. That if she didn’t like how I was treating her I could always drop her off at her mother’s house.

She pouts no and that she was going to tell daddy. When we got home, Aaron asks how everything was. Before I could tell him what they did. They went all ape shit. “She didn’t buy us anything but got her kids stuff. It’s not fair Daddy.”

Remy looks at Aaron and flat out tells him. “Dad, that’s bullshit. Aira and I paid for our things ourselves. He had a temper tantrum in the middle of the store and SHE (honestly that kid hissed that word) pulled the well my mommy would.” He turned to look at her then and asked her “If your mom wanted you flat on your back to pay for her drug habit would you do it because she does.”

She tried to slap him for it. He dodged it and just laughed at her. “Go ahead a do it. I dare you. I have never hit a girl in my life but I will not hesitate to start now with you. I am sick of you mentioning your mother to us. She is nothing compared to mine. She is not worthy enough to lick the shit off mom’s boots. You know that as well as I do.” He then turns to Drew. “You need to grow the fuck up and quit acting like a little bitch before I beat you just on shear principle alone.”

Needless to say yesterday sucked king kong sized balls.

wow just wow smh g'luck with that....(another reason I will not have kids,)

Nate wrote: "wow just wow smh g'luck with that....(another reason I will not have kids,)"

Yeah.... My kids are no problem. It's just the other two that have me wanting to pull out my hair and go bat shit crazy on them. I love them though. That's why it is so frustrating. Ungrateful wretches. -.-

but that's not your doing, that's how they were raised by their mum and it can't be undone if its an ongoing thing. I think your fighting a losing battle. don't worry They'll get the wake up call in the real world. (Let your kids give em a good smack down )

...I often get accused of being the spoiled rich kid. In some ways I guess I am but not to the degree many think.

Where do I fit in this? I'm snippy and arrogant, but I don't complain about parental responsibilities....

@ Nate Yeah I think they are getting close to the point of no return as far as their attitude.

@ Ira XD Thanks.

@ Kyle if I knew of a solution.... I wouldn't be bitching bout the step kids. :)

@ T From what I have seen you do not shirk your responsibilities. YEs you can be arrogant but we all are to a point. :)

Hey now, not all of us kids are that bad. I was raised with such propriety that I don't even put my elbows on the table, thank you very much. (:

Waterfall *Daughter of Northridge Earthquake* wrote: "Hey now, not all of us kids are that bad. I was raised with such propriety that I don't even put my elbows on the table, thank you very much. (:"

YAY!

My kids don't either. XD

I'm just tired of the ones who think society owes them everything. ~~sighs~~

I think you're an amazing mother with the way you raised those other two. They're very polite and well-mannered, which i don't occasionally see that around here. Kids these days are assholes, just be glad that your own kids aren't brought up like the rest of us. lol

*grumbles* I'm not all that bad....

Djinn sounds like a cool mum. though I think it'd be both cool and scary at the same time cus, she once said she'd flatten my tires and crack my windshield...& I think she'd really do it. (btw was that a metaphor?)

LMAO!!

Also, I thought I'd let you know that what your son said had me cackling to the point of receiving strange looks from my family. (:

Hmm.... feel a need to write another rant. Just have to figure out about what.