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Racheal, Ray, the weird one :)
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Aug 11, 2013 01:31PM

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im insecure about being myself and the way i look
My personality, smarts, what others think of me, and looks.

A taurus helping me figure out what is going on between me and my crush (this is now a big one)
being in front of a crowd
Sierra you're beautiful, just so you know :)
how skinny or fat i look....like the numbers dont count it only matters how i look....
also talking infront of people
also talking infront of people
Um I just don't like how i look period. I'm fine-ish with my weight but I don't think I look what I weigh at all.

Demonhunter wrote: "I agree you are very beautiful Sierra."
Aww, thanks guys :)
♥Mary Malik♥ wrote: "I'm so silly I didn't even know you were already my friend sierra! It's just I read your profile and you seem soo nice :) and you are beautiful I love your profile pic ^_^"
Lol Mary XD Thank you, you're a wonderful person :)
Katelyn~don't harm yourself wrote: "Sierra you're beautiful, just so you know :)"
Aww thanks Katie! You are too :)
You guys are all such sweet, wonderful people. You're all beautiful inside and out :)
im insecure when i meet new people

A big one of my insecurities is being ignored by people

i know how u feel....i hate being ignored...specially by those who mean alot to u..i mean come on imagine uv been friends with someone since childhood and one day they start ignoring u cause PPL say that ur a bad person
ironic ey?

@Crushon I think the worst part of being ignore d is being ignored by someone you care about that's the worst
I really used to go to great l..."
Not even said hi to me in hallway and doesn't think to look for me at brunch/lunch. We have 0 classes together. I have 0 classes with my best friend too. idk, I only know that he and I like some of the same things. He might be like that though.

@Crushon I think the worst part of being ignore d is being ignored by someone you care about that's the worst
I really used to go to great l..."
no one should feel like that :( it hurts

@Crushon I think the worst part of being ignore d is being ignored by someone you care about that's the worst
I really ..."
I lost my best friend, her name is Blair Isabel, that hurts the worst

I know how you feel. Do you know how many times I will be dumped and hurt by a group of friends and they always expect me to forgive them ;yet I always do! Help me."
I don't know how to forgive Blair. She and I were like the best of friends and I have no classes with her. I don't know where she hangs out at lunch.

I tried something in the first few weeks of 9th grade and I realized that I preferred the company of my friends from when I was in 6th and 7th grade. I tried being with three other girls, but it didn't work out. One has chem, and I know hardly anything about that. And the other two are just as weird as their friend. All three are too weird for me to be with. You should go back to being a loner and try to find other friends. I went back to being a loner and trust me, when I say that I actually like it better than being with weird girls. But first you should forgive your friends.
SheraLove wrote: "I just do not understand. They continuously hurt me but they are the only ones I have at school. Do you think I should forgive the next time they dump me during the year or just leave the friendshi..."
Well, if their ditching you and stuff like that, they aren't your true friends. Regardless, its not fair that your giving your all in the friendship as their not giving any. I'd lose them and make new friends! Just saying girl:) you deserve true friends.
Well, if their ditching you and stuff like that, they aren't your true friends. Regardless, its not fair that your giving your all in the friendship as their not giving any. I'd lose them and make new friends! Just saying girl:) you deserve true friends.
Lol wanna know how me and my, now bestfriend became friends? A compliment.
We were in PE and just sitting on the benches waiting for the teacher to quit talking and I looked at her (seeing that she had the same glasses I did, although I wasn't wearing mine) and for some reason something told me to say something. Now im not the type to make new friends, lol I like sticking to the ones I already had, but for some reason I got the notion to. So I just said "I like your glasses, I have the same ones at home." She said thanks, we talked a bit, exchanged numbers, and then BOOM! She came over that weekend and we became best friends:) lol
We were in PE and just sitting on the benches waiting for the teacher to quit talking and I looked at her (seeing that she had the same glasses I did, although I wasn't wearing mine) and for some reason something told me to say something. Now im not the type to make new friends, lol I like sticking to the ones I already had, but for some reason I got the notion to. So I just said "I like your glasses, I have the same ones at home." She said thanks, we talked a bit, exchanged numbers, and then BOOM! She came over that weekend and we became best friends:) lol

Don't feel bad:/ im sorry, and I am also one of those people who trust easy. I know it's hard and it's messed up. Those people obviously aren't your real friends, and I know they lost the chance to have an awesome friend!
It's okay :) i just had to rant for a second

thanx
Yeh, believe in yourself:) feel confident, you are beautiful, you are awesome, you are smarticles, you are funny, and you are a great friend!
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