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Thanks Kandi. I have to admit, I am loving this book. It's hysterical - and a little sad. I actually know people like this, and they are as clueless as Don that perhaps their behavior, while logical on some level, is not socially acceptable.
That said, the apricot ice cream woman, is, to me, just as bad. Does that mean I have Aspergers? Don't think so, just find all people who view life in absolute terms as annoying.
So far I have only just met Rosie, but I love this book. Don, as annoying as he is, is oddly endearing. I love how he realizes that his friend Gene's children might be counted as his friends "which would bring the total up to four". I don't watch the Big Bang theory, but this seems to have a bit more heart than the snippets of that show that I have seen, so I am really, really enjoying it.
That said, the apricot ice cream woman, is, to me, just as bad. Does that mean I have Aspergers? Don't think so, just find all people who view life in absolute terms as annoying.
So far I have only just met Rosie, but I love this book. Don, as annoying as he is, is oddly endearing. I love how he realizes that his friend Gene's children might be counted as his friends "which would bring the total up to four". I don't watch the Big Bang theory, but this seems to have a bit more heart than the snippets of that show that I have seen, so I am really, really enjoying it.

It's wonderful that the story is told from Don's prospective - he's so logical!


Same here. One of the several people in my life who definitely could be diagnosed Asperger's (or something similar to Don's personality disorder) is my grandson (he's 12). Reading books with this theme/charactors has helped me immensely when dealing with them now and I find it fascinating trying to keep up with how their minds work and adapting to their conversations/point of view. I'm way too much like Rosie, also, but have the capacity to identify with those like Don (as she seems to be trying so far in the story).
Thoroughly loving this book!

Yes, I loved the night of bartending as well - I loved how well he described how exhilarated he was! So matter of fact, and slightly surprised.
Another thing I think this author did very well was show that for all his flaws and logic-driven choices, he is actually a good person. The birthday celebrations for his friend Daphne, the shock at realizing he hadn't spoken his sister's name since her death...he definitely SHOWS that Don is good without TELLING is Don is good - so nicely done.
Another thing I think this author did very well was show that for all his flaws and logic-driven choices, he is actually a good person. The birthday celebrations for his friend Daphne, the shock at realizing he hadn't spoken his sister's name since her death...he definitely SHOWS that Don is good without TELLING is Don is good - so nicely done.

My eldest son is a 20-year old Aspie, so I'm recognising a lot of Don's reactions, thought patterns and challenges, from him and his friends (I'm not sure what his total is).
I almost squeed out loud when in chapter 2, in connection with Don's talk to the Aspie kids, they mention Denmark and the hiring of Aspies for 'computer applications testing'. My son is currently taking the AspIT (Asperger-IT) education; they have a high employment rate for their graduating students and are quite popular with IT companies.
My son has been in work training as part of the school curriculum a couple of times, but had to give it up because of confusion and overload (in one place he had to deal with customers, do repairs, AND answer the phone); he wants instead to go to high school and then university.


Dorthe, its fascinating, isn't it? I thought this book did an amazing job of showing some of the wonderful qualities people with Asperger's have - the memory and appreciation of routine and organization that so many of us envy. At the same time, it showed is some of the drawbacks ("Yes, the fat woman in the back row? I'm Sorry, the OVERWEIGHT woman in the back row." - still makes me laugh) while showing that they can still have heart.
I have to wonder about the author. Have any of you looked up his other works on Goodreads? They certainly aren't novels!
I have to wonder about the author. Have any of you looked up his other works on Goodreads? They certainly aren't novels!

I think he'd appreciate some of the comments and observations we've been making!



I'm fascinated by Aspergers Syndrome and how simply looking at it as "differently-abled" people can not only help those with it find their niche, but help them excel and overcome some of their difficulties. Knowledge is power. This book is an unusual and highly entertaining look at that world. Rosie and Don are both precious and endearing characters.
I also found a list of people who had or have Aspergers, it's quite a distinguished group:
Al Gore, Bill Gates, Bob Dylan, Alfred Hitchcock, Andy Warhol, Howard Hughes, Isaac Asimov, Jim Henson, John Denver, Garrison Keillor, James Taylor, Daryl Hannah, John Nash (portrayed by Russell Crowe in A Beautiful Mind), Oliver Sacks (author of Awakenings), and Robin Williams who starred in Awakenings as the doctor. Amazing people.
I also found a list of people who had or have Aspergers, it's quite a distinguished group:
Al Gore, Bill Gates, Bob Dylan, Alfred Hitchcock, Andy Warhol, Howard Hughes, Isaac Asimov, Jim Henson, John Denver, Garrison Keillor, James Taylor, Daryl Hannah, John Nash (portrayed by Russell Crowe in A Beautiful Mind), Oliver Sacks (author of Awakenings), and Robin Williams who starred in Awakenings as the doctor. Amazing people.

Yes, folks with Aspergers are very bright and can fit in very well in the world with some guidance and understanding. For example, I had a student who wasn't able to get past the first question on a test or homework until he supplied ALL the information about the question. The first question on a Science assignment was "What is an atom?" The teacher expected "protons+neutrons". My Aspie went on for 45 min. and never finished the question. We had to work on that for a year! He was so intelligent, but he needed to make "rules" to function in the real world.
Loved these kids though!
@Carol: I love that story! It's so believable that Rosie fell in love with Don, and remarkable that he was able to make the changes that he did.

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600 Hours of Edward (other topics)Edward Adrift (other topics)