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heres a place you can say what you want. go for it.

i hate the olympics, im so glad its over for another 2 years. who cares who can run the fastest, who cares who can hold their breath the longest. i say get all the leaders of the world together, tell them to drop their pants, measure their dicks and get it over with. it's time for the olympics to fade away, everything has a shelf life.

Now that is hilarious. Also, quite honest. Another reason I like this group. I feel like I don't have to censor myself, which is nice. :)

you definitely dont. especially not in this discussion, lol. now let me tell you what i think about commercials...lol

cant stand them. i dont watch cable anymore because of the commercials. shows are like 19 minutes now. 19! and they are programming it so every channel goes to commercial at the same time. no more channel surfing. incredibly annoying. it used to make me want to pull an elvis and shoot the damn screen, but i dont have a gun. i did throw popcorn at it many times though, to the delight of my dog. now that i just download the shows though, life is sweet. no commercials, just entertainment. there is no going back once you make that choice though, so think it through. there is a downside as in i dont watch as much news, which is ok i guess as tv news channels and shows are pretty bad too. also i dont know much about current pop culture, which again doesnt really bother me on a daily basis. i guess seeing new movie trailers? but even then i will eventually get around to the movie. yea, forget about cable. cable cant live without commercials so its not a waiting game. bah, god damn commercials. lol.

I should seriously move to Japan, they literally have almost no commercials.

wow really? thats the first ive heard of this, that is amazing, sounds like paradise

Even more so for me. They have Hello kitty stores. lol

Commercials SUCK, no doubt about it. And most of them are so corny & stupid they insult my intelligence

its like they arent even trying anymore. not that they ever did i suppose. but still, at some point even the worst commercial is pitched before a board of people. so no matter how bad it is more then one person thought it was good enough to air. that thought is frightening, lol.

And these are the people who are making money. That is the kind of world we live in.

I personally hate

the news

Sorry, my keyboard is acting like a little bitch right now

ha dont worry about it. yea i cant watch the news anymore. all the anchors are such douche bags. i stick to reading the news online, but even then it is often biased. plus theres always those damn commercials before the news videos. thats why i dont go on youtube anymore either, lol.

I go on Youtube to watch anime, that is it. And as far as the newss goes they LOVE it when bad stuff happens! The world is tragic enough w/o having to listen to them hype it up

Okay I know this is the place for Rants and such, but I want to ask before I start this. Will anyone appose if I rant about...well what went down with my family. Because i really need to get this off my chest.

Please do, my family has been diving me CRAZY lately(as much as I love them) Let it out girl, please

feel free to rant about whatever you want fangs :)

Well I had been in a certain religion since I was pretty much born. My parents expected me to grow up and continue it, but then I met my now husband and we dated and I didn't want to tell them about him until I was ready. They weren't to happy about it. I had been doing everything just to please them, and I was sick of it. So I moved in with him and got excommunicated, which also means that my family is not allowed to talk to me. My dad always used to tell me that I was the love of his life, so I never would have thought something like that would be placed above me.

Oh girl, I am so sorry! I know people who have been through the same thing w/certain religions & almost everytime their family comes around & starts talking to the excommunicated person again. Hang in there, girl.

It's not going to happen. It's been over six years since then, my family wont budge unless I come back. But I wouldn't be able to do that. It's not what I believe. Especially with the whole gay marriage thing, they don't like gay people. And I'm BI.

U know, I was going to say so many of my gay/ bi friends have gone through this same situation w/ their parents. I am a HUGE gay/bi advocate b/c so many of my friends r gay & I HATE discrimination of ANY kind especially being judged for who u love. I'm straight as hell, but that doesn't give me any more right to fall in love w/someone must b/c they r the opposite sex of me. Oh girl,.don't even get me started!

I wasn't trying to get you upset or anything. I'm just saying what's happening with me.

Oh no, u r not getting me upset. I have just seen it happen so much, I hate it. I am upset for you, sweetie. (The southern girl in me comes out when I am more comfortable around people.& I start calling them sweetie or.baby)

Lol it's okay. :)
I really thought that maybe my dad would understand when I told him you know, he's always been such a good listener. But when he found out he thought I was joking.

It just amazes(sp) me how people react sometimes. Especially people.u think would b cool w/ it

I never really thought he would be cool with it per say. He's one of those people that doesn't tolerate it at all. His own brother is gay and he doesn't talk to him any more either. I just thought maybe he would at least you know tolerate it from his own daughter at least. But he just got upset and told me that he didn't want to see me bringing home any guy and girls. Like just because I was Bi that I was suddenly a giant whore.

I just don't know why people.hate it so bad.

They are afraid of what they don't understand.

You are rignt about that, girl. Sometimes its like tlling peopleu r a recovering addict, they automatically see u as a sleazebucket or something. So I undesand about being judged.

That's I pride myself on being non-judgemental

It's good to talk about this to someone. I talked to my husband about it before, but i feel like since he was there for most of it, it's not the same as getting it off my chest. If that makes any sense.

I said the same thing the other night, that's why I like talking to u guys so much b/c itt really I easier to talk to someone u just met sometimes than to someone who has been your friend for years

Btw, I'm always here for you :)

I agree. It's a lot easier a lot of the time.

hey there fangs and ash, im sorry i wasnt around last night to chat but i actually fell asleep early. fangs, i dont know what i can say. first off im glad you shared and i hope that you feel better after getting it off your chest. it is indeed a lot easier to be so open with people you will most likely never be meeting thats for sure. secondly, if that religion was worth worrying about it wouldnt be so hateful. it sucks that your dad is so brainwashed that he pushes the people he loves, or at least should love, away. i hope he realizes how wrong he is before its too late and he is alone with his crazy religion. and if it was a religion worth any kind of a damn it wouldnt separate family and preach hate. yet another nail in the organized religion coffin. never forget that all religions are invented by man. who knows if there is anything after death, why waste the time and effort it seems to take bothering with it. we are all going to die and find out anyways. if a religion tells you something that makes you abandon someone you claim is the love of your life then it is very obviously wrong. im sorry that you have to deal with such ignorance. at least though you found someone that you love and loves you that wont let something as silly as a little book of fiction get in the way. i could rant and rave about organized religion, but like i said, why bother. we are all going to find out anyways. just take solace in the fact that you arent alone and the majority of the population is on your side. at least i am anyways, and so is ash.

Thanks Dave. I really am glad to have friends like you guys. It's nice to know that you guys feel the same way I do. :)

I just read this now, yes, I said I would go watch something, but I got destracted because I saw new comments in this topic.
I had to say something.
I feel sympathy for you, Fang.
They should accept you for who you are. If your own family isn't even willing..that hurts the most.
It must have taken quite some courage to choose your own path and stick to it. Wish you all the best and happiness.

Thanks Mirjam. :)

So guys I have something kind of serious, and possibly embarrassing to talk about.

Uh oh, hope everythin is ok

It's just something I've always had a sort of thing about. And if you are embarrassed by what I'm going to say then I'm very sorry in advance. It's not the easiest thing for me to talk about either.

Well if you want a place to anonymously talk about with friendly folks, this is it id say :)

Okay well, I'm a pretty small person, short and skinny. Me and my husband were at this get together party thing a friends was throwing. And I was just sitting there and some random person that I don't even know came up to me and told me that I was so skinny. And you know I don't mind that. But then She goes on to tell me that my boobs are to big! And to be honest I have always been pretty sensitive about them. I don't know why I just am. It kind of hurt me to be honest.

That is odd that a person would come up and say such a thing. You should have made some comments about how she looked, im sure it would have been easy, just from hearing that i can tell shes a judgemental petty bitch who probably gets slapped a lot.

lol.
But the thing is, it wasn't really about that for me. Just the fact that I wish i could get over my sensitiveness about them.

Yea, body issues are quite tough to cope with. I donno what to tell you mrs fangs, either stop caring or get surgury, i recommend the first thing, its much cheaper :)

I'm defiantly not getting surgery. And it's not really about the size or anything like that, it's just them in general. I don't know if that makes sense to you. It's hard to explain I guess.

No i get ya i think. I used to be quite the fatty, lost all the weight the wrong way but i still wear baggy clothes and avoid walking around in just a t shirt. Very self conscious.

Nice to know someone understands. My sister never did, and my dad certainly didn't. He sent me to my room one time because he said something about it and I yelled at him. Didn't mean to yell of course, just came out that way.

That is indeed b.s tho not suprising. Your pops doesnt come off too well from what youve mentioned before. Im sorry you had to deal with him. I know i cant say anything to help ya feel better, just know that you are not alone. And people that judge other people the way that random douche bag did to you is a real crappy thing to do. Your body is your body, we gotta live with what we got. Ill try if you will :)