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1 stone = 14 pounds

What? You didn't do the math for us? You're slipping, Leslie. :)

Whether that is fat or not depends in part with how tall she is...


Me, too! Now I'm waiting for the next new one. I liked all the characters and fortunately they are all carried through the whole series.





I agree although the 'minor issues' bugged me more than you apparently. But I liked it enough to want to read more. Maybe when I have finished the Morse series, I will pick up this one.
Susan, you mentioned some interest in that - anyone else?

I didn't have a choice about reading the whole series because each book seem to end in a "cliff hanger" and I just had to keep finding out what would happen next.


I'm only a couple of chapters in, but I do like the main character, Ruth. I also like the setting and I'm generally feeling enthusiastic about getting into the story and characters.




I didn't have a choice about readi..."
Is Cathbad a recurring character? Well, obviously he is from your comment, but I am surprised.



I just got the latest in the series The Outcast Dead from the library today and can't wait to read it. The bad apart is that I'm so far ahead of our buddy read that I can't remember what happened when.

Sorry to say, but yes Ruth is fat. WHO CARES!?!?! She is a successful, interesting, professional woman who is sexually irresistible to Nelson, who is married to a beautiful, stylish, thin woman who loves him and has given him two beautiful daughters. Who says fat women can't play the romance game?
This leads me to one of the (minor) weaknesses of the series. Occasionally, Ruth gets into physical combat with the bad guys. Not credible. Not necessary, either. Neither she nor Nelson should be mixing it up hand-to-hand at their ages. That's what the young, strong members of Nelson's squad (both male and female) are there for.
I love Cathbad. Yes, he comes back later in the series, and he continues to be great.
My favorite parts of this first book in the series were the "solution" to the mystery (which I won't reveal in case some of you haven't finished) and the descriptions of Ruth's past and present interactions with her ex-boyfriend. (SPOILER: Note that her having gotten fat since she dumped him doesn't prevent him from desperately wanting her back!)


175 lbs (12.5 stone) for a woman of typical height - let's say 5' 6" (1.67 m) - is clinically obese, whether you want to call her fat or overweight, or heavy, or whatever. Personally, the term "fat" brings to my mind someone who is enormous, like the fat lady of the circus, which clearly doesn't fit Ruth, so I would describe her as overweight. But that is just my personal (and admittedly incorrect) meaning of the word fat...
I had mixed feelings about Nelson's wife - (view spoiler) …

Given how pervasive this "issue" is, I think that owning it and talking about it in straightforward words of one syllable -- f . a . t -- would be good.
We detective-fiction addicts have been given many chances to love and admire male detectives who are fat ... or old or alcoholic or bald or ... you get the picture. Who among us did not love Andy Dalziel, for example? Yet, all of the successful female detectives whom we read about are "lookers." Why?
That being said, I don't think Ruth would be as compelling a protagonist as she is if she were fat but otherwise the same as every other female detective we've met. Her profession is fascinating. Her middling status in the academic world is fascinating. Her attraction to Nelson is at least a little bit weird (in a good way).
And these books offer plot as well as characters. A great find.
What do the rest of you think of Erik and his role in the story?


Agatha Raisin's age and weight are one of the main reasons I enjoy the series. How many late middle-aged female central character detectives are there? And ones that come from a lower income background?
To get back to The Crossing Places, I never got the feeling that there was a slight sneer about Michelle's occupation or aspirations or that she was a little unpleasant. No, she wasn't as intellectually challenging to Nelson as Ruth but I still got a good vibe about her. But then I didn't notice the present tense either so maybe I'm just not the best judge. haha
I think Nelson is attracted to Ruth because she is so different from Michelle and also because of her compatible work methods. He and Michele have been together for many years and sometimes different is intriguing. I suspect that for the long haul, even if Ruth were more sophisticated in her appearance, he would really like a wife less challenging. Just a feeling I have.

I agree with you. I can't remember Ruth's comment about Michelle but her disapproval of the behaviors of others was selective. On the other hand, that makes her very human.


"Genuinely human" is a lot of why Ruth is such a great character. Yes, she is critical of Shona, but she sticks with their friendship and would help Shona in a pinch. It's pretty hard to be friends for life with someone and not find some important things to criticize! I also don't think that Ruth is "utterly indifferent" to Nelson's wife and daughters. She is drawn to Nelson, as he is to her, and she gives in to her desire, but she recognizes that his primary responsibility is to his family and doesn't try to demand anything from him.
We're concentrating on the characters and hardly saying anything about the plot. I thought it was a good one. I loved Griffiths's descriptions of the location as well.

I thought the plot pretty good also except I did wonder how the girl could have remained a prisoner in that location without anyone ever in all those years hearing anything or seeing him carrying food and water out there and being curious. If I remember correctly, wasn't it a lookout station? I would have found it more believable if he had had an underground bunker in his house.
Has anyone in the group ever visited the area where Ruth lives? Has it been accurately portrayed?
I would really like to discuss Agatha's obnoxious behavioral issues. Maybe we could read one out of the series as the book of the month.

We did read one of the Agatha Raisin series as a BOTM. The Quiche of Death in April 2013.
Are there spoiler rules for this discussion thread, e.g., a date by which we assume people have finished reading?

Nothing official, but I would go along with the BoTM schedule and say that after the 15th (which was yesterday) spoiler tags aren't needed.

Good. So let me address something that you tagged as a spoiler.
I don't think that Griffiths's intention is for us to regard Michelle as unpleasant. Michelle has been just about as good a wife to Nelson and mother to his children as a high-school sweetheart can be. But her worldview, although it has evolved since high school, has diverged from Nelson's -- which has also evolved but in a different direction. It's not surprising that he is sexually attracted to other women. And Ruth is an appealing novelty in his expanding and evolving worldview; why shouldn't he want her? I wouldn't be surprised to learn that Michelle is sexually attracted to other men, but the culture in which she and Nelson were raised deems it to be a far, far greater transgression for her to act on those feelings than for him to act on his. So it's not surprising that he's done so, and (as far as we know so far) she hasn't.
I've read all of the books in the series so far, and I think that Michelle, Nelson, and Ruth continue to do the best they can in these circumstances. None of them was presented with a really good option; they muddled through with the less bad options. Don't we all?

Although, that is an interesting point in itself. Had I just read this book without discussing it, I probably would have thought it was an OK mystery and shelved it (well, on my kindle, but you know what I mean). Now that I think about it, in order to discuss it, I am aware of the problems. Perhaps that is unfair to most mystery books, which probably do not withstand too much scrutiny. When you have people wandering around the marsh in the dark, you can overlook the obvious - that it is near a car park and is, presumably, a fairly public place, even if it is a remote location.

Good. So let me address something that..."
I am willing to take your word on this, as Michelle barely makes an appearance in this book. It was just my impression from the little that we do see of her.
As for Nelson (and/or Michelle) being attracted to other people, of course it is not surprising. However, I am curious about your comment "... the culture in which she and Nelson were raised deems it to be a far, far greater transgression for her to act on those feelings than for him to act on his. So it's not surprising that he's done so, and (as far as we know so far) she hasn't." Are you referring to British culture of the 1970-80s? Is it really regarded as more acceptable for men to cheat than for women to cheat in modern day England?

I thought from the way that the hide was described that it was a) in a very remote area surrounded by marsh and bog, so unlikely to have casual walkers near by and b) someplace he went to everyday (or at least on a regular basis) as part of his job, so anyone seeing him wouldn't think about it. It was clear from the way it was described that he only opened the trap at night, so no-one would see him carrying food. That part of the plot seemed OK to me, although I don't know when he would have dug out the underground room.

I'm very far from an expert on British culture of the '70s and '80s. However, every culture I've encountered imposes far harsher penalties on women for marital infidelity (and for sexual self-indulgence generality) than it does on men. This differential in harshness is shrinking as time goes on, but it's still there. It was bigger in the '70s and '80s than it is now; despite all of the "sexual-revolution" talk of "the sixties," things were still more classically sexist back then than they are now. Harry and Michelle Nelson also grew up working class in Blackpool; my impression is that Elly Griffiths wants us to conclude from that that they had "conventional beliefs" drummed into them more heavy-handedly than some of the rest of the characters in these books.


Joan, I think it was and still is harder on a woman to have marital infidelity. We have, and always had, a double standard.
Leslie, I am still smarting on you calling her obese at 175 pounds. Maybe she is technically but I don't think it's fair to beat her up for it. Of course, as a heavy woman I am quite sensitive to that. I just have a hard time when women beat each other up on stuff like that.

I didn't mind the infidelity too much until the end, but Ruth seemed so smug and unrepentant. I still feel there was a sneer there somewhere!
I didn't feel you could describe her as 'obese' either - even if she technically was.


Susan, I didn't like Ruth's cavalier attitude either. She had nary a care about Michelle and this after she was crushed at finding out that she wasn't so special after all to Eric.
Before when you mentioned a sneer at Michelle, I was thinking, and don't ask why, goofy I guess, that you were referring to the author's opinion, not Ruth's. But yes, I think you're right, Ruth rather discounted Michele, a subtle sneer.

I wasn't "beating her up" or trying to be judgemental, just stating a fact. I myself am clinically obese, although I would not call myself fat.
Here is a quote from WebMD:
"Doctors usually define "overweight" as a condition in which a person's weight is 10%-20% higher than "normal," as defined by a standard height/weight chart, or as a body mass index (BMI) of 25 to 30.
Obesity is usually defined as a condition in which a person's weight is 20% or more above normal weight or as a BMI of 30 or more. "Morbid obesity" means a person is either 50%-100% over normal weight, more than 100 pounds over normal weight, or sufficiently overweight to severely interfere with health or normal functioning.
Approximately 60 million Americans, nearly one-third of all adults and about one in five children, are obese. In 2008, only one state -- Colorado -- had an obesity rate less than 20%."
A woman of 5' 6" has an ideal weight of 117 - 143 lbs.
175-143=32 lbs over the maximum ideal weight
(32/143)*100=22% over the maximum ideal weight
22% > 20% therefore obese…
I do think that Joan had a good point when she said: "Given how pervasive this "issue" is, I think that owning it and talking about it in straightforward words of one syllable -- f . a . t -- would be good." but it is also clear that this is an issue that people are sensitive about, myself included. Interesting how this stigma of being fat is so gender-specific.

That would be a shame. I like hearing different perspectives on a book, as long as people aren't trying to convert me to their own opinion. I hope that you didn't feel like I was trying to change your mind - I wasn't; I was just describing how I had pictured the hide.
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