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Feb 07, 2016 01:49AM

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Our protagonist Frieda learns a secret - that in the past there were not only "aberrant" men but also women who were attracted to the same sex. It is hinted that Frieda herself might potentially have such a relationship with Isabel but at the end of the book we learn what has been going on with Isabel.
I haven't read The Handmaid's Tale which is not a YA story, but many reviews mention it including those who have high praise for this book and from those who dislike it.
I thought this was a fun quick read but there wasn't a whole lot in it that I hadn't seen in other dystopian novels...most notably the The Handmaid's Tale for control of women's sexuality and Pretties for the appearance and technology aspects...both of which I felt were much better books. I fear that this isn't a book (unlike The Handmaid's Tale) that will age well. I felt there was a bit too much focus on the various technology and youth cultural aspects, which will "date" the book.
Finally the book felt like it could have trimmed about 50 pages.
The one aspect I did find unique to the book was that there didn't seem to be an active resistance element against the structure of the society. In most dystopian novels I can think of (Hunger Games, Handmaid's Tale, etc.), there's an active rebellion going on. Did anyone else have thoughts on that aspect of the book?
Finally the book felt like it could have trimmed about 50 pages.
The one aspect I did find unique to the book was that there didn't seem to be an active resistance element against the structure of the society. In most dystopian novels I can think of (Hunger Games, Handmaid's Tale, etc.), there's an active rebellion going on. Did anyone else have thoughts on that aspect of the book?

Sara I have yet to read The Handmaid's Tale (hopefully this year!). In most books I have read where genetics are altered in a race it takes many generations for the "rebellion" trait to emerge. In cases where a segment of the population is controlled by a larger faction, the spirit of rebellion simmers away in the background and is easily reignited.
Isobel does a kind of passive resistence through her abusive eating. In her way, she is refusing to be controlled.

I'm going to have to read Asking For It and The Handmaid's Tale. TBR list just keeps growing :-)

I read this story over two days. Couldn't put it down. It's been described as a dystopian novel with comparisons made to the handmaids tale. Both of which I don't really think are fair descriptions.
Set in a future where reproduction is controlled so women only bear son's and women are produced via test tubes so as to produce the necessary amount only of the most beautiful women. These women are then groomed from birth to be man's companion, concubine or if not chosen for either, a teacher.
It can easily be compared with current life for young women growing up in a society where pictures on social media are judged with how many likes it gets, popularity being based on this, the cattiness of groups of teenage girls and how fickle they are. The lack of self worth girls have as teens and the need to reinforce this by gaining others approvals.
I think this is a very relevant book for all young people to read and shows the new dangers modern society has developed


I think it's a marketing thing Serephina. I have yet to read The Handmaid's Tale ,it's on my tbr for ages, but for some reason it's not on audible at the moment. I have seen many books by little known authors compared to it.


It was on there. I had it in my wishlist for ages then it disappeared. That happens a lot on audible. It's usually to do with copyright. I wish they'd do a "last chance to buy" section. I've said this to them.

I think you're right there Emma. My off line book club works by members chosing books in a rota system. When Oryx and Crake was chosen hardly anyone read it because of the theme. Mind you I do the same with online book clubs - I only read what take my fancy. I'm probably missing some great books. Glad I didn't miss this one though ;-D

Someway, I loathed it. Something in the narrator character was so ennoying that I ended up feeling frustrated and angered. I tried to rationalise it as a reaction to the lack of individual reactions of any kind on her part, that made me feel there was no real plot development, no narrative, but I am not sure at all that this is actually the point.
Anyway, this was one of the most desperate and depressing things I have read in the last ten years. I am not sure I needed it.
Teenager girls do really feel like that? This is no rhetoric question, I actually would like to know if young readers of this book feel it depicts their world.

I don't think it's meant to be an upbeat book so your description of it as depressing is right especially if we put ourselves in teengage girls shoes today. I wouldn't like to have grown up in society where Facebook is your main social outlet, you have 500 friends on it all judging your pictures and you can be isolated by one idiots nasty comment. I think this book really does describe how it is for a teenager today in the most severe form.
My son turns 13 this week, we don't have Internet at home so he doesn't have access to it 24 hours a day. We've done that to protect him even though he doesn't see it that way at the moment. So I'm sure not all teenagers lives revolve around social media but a hell of a lot do. It's a difficult time to grow up and I think a lot of elements in this book depict that.



I am getting old. I cannot cope anymore with all-dark stories without a rebellion ;)
But you are probably right, it's dark times for teens. We should teach them to fight and be free, and I think it's a great thing to take responsibility and tell them "no internet at home".Fair play to you, Seraphina!



I wonder why they decided on pink for the cover of this one - it does alianate male readers and although the characters are female the story may have wider appeal. I could see my man enjoying it cept he wouldn't brave the pink cover in front of his work gang!

And what a nasty finish.
No happily ever after at all.
Actually surprised by this one. Very much a female targeted book with the cover and all that but it was a decent read and was generally quite interesting. The author writes a mental breakdown very well.
Some bits were a tad inane but overall its a very good book



Glad to hear you thought it was good Paul. I'm going to try to get my man to read it. I reckon he'd enjoy it. I also liked that the end was so unexpected.



I know Paul . I wish I meant it the way you did too :)

It's ok you can't like them all . Maybe if I liked freida more or megan didn't come out smelling like a rose. I just loath everyone in the book .It's must be me because most people love it lol

I have gone back to reading Cutting for Stone and so far I'm ok

He only started it Friday so I'm expecting a verdict today as to whether he's going to complete it. I know he won't like the end - he's a sucker for the happy ending!

So do I - we must be really mean people :-P


I think Isabel was the easiest to get along with in that sense. Even the matrons come off very nastily in the course of it all.

But sometimes a book just doesn't for everyone - else we'd have little to discuss ;-)


I agree Emma. People care about how they look, the things they have and how they measure up against everyone else. So from that perspective the book is an amplified version of today's society but today women have more say in western society's.
I was thinking as I was reading this book that it would be cool to read a book about a society where women are dominant.

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