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HOW TO WALK AWAY - Feb 2020
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I finished this one this morning. It was a super fast read and I loved it! Was it predictable? Somewhat, but it didn't bother me. I think I will give it 4 stars as well.
As much as I was hoping for a totally happy ending with her getting her feeling back, I'm also kind of glad it didn't end that way. I loved that Katherine Center did such a good job of showing all the different emotions of Margaret processing what life will now be for her. We watched as she struggled with depression and even suicide, to coming around to finding purpose and joy in her plans for Camp Hope. And all of that without Ian right by her side. I loved that she came to it on her own, but then ultimately gets the guy too!
Lovely book for a February read. Hope you all enjoy it too!
As much as I was hoping for a totally happy ending with her getting her feeling back, I'm also kind of glad it didn't end that way. I loved that Katherine Center did such a good job of showing all the different emotions of Margaret processing what life will now be for her. We watched as she struggled with depression and even suicide, to coming around to finding purpose and joy in her plans for Camp Hope. And all of that without Ian right by her side. I loved that she came to it on her own, but then ultimately gets the guy too!
Lovely book for a February read. Hope you all enjoy it too!





I absolutely loved this book! It would have been the perfect thing for me to read as a younger adult, hoping for fulfilling romance in my life but fearing that nobody would see past my disability. This is ultimately a feel-good book where everything turns out nicely and everyone lives happily ever-- people with disabilities NEED love stories like this in order to have faith that we have as much right to a happy romantic life as anyone else. I loved that the main character tried to improve as much as she could after her accident, but in the end, she still used a wheelchair and lived with a disability that many people would call "debilitating," but she was happy. The scene with Ian crashing Chip's wedding was totally unbelievable and very cheesy, but how many times have I watched movies or read books featuring "neurotypical" (non-disabled) characters and vaguely enjoyed scenes like that, but thought, "That could never happen to me?" More times than I can count! It was nice for the girl in the wheelchair to have a sappy moment with her knight in shining armour.
The fact of the matter is that very few people, with or without disabilities, have elements of fairytale romance in their lives, but I loved reading one with a woman with a disability who fell in love with an able-bodied man. I could picture myself in her place. Yes, he was her physiotherapist, and yes, that would have crossed all kinds of ethical boundaries in real life, but I liked that for probably the first time in my reading life, and definitely the first time while reading a romance novel, there was representation of a life like mine. I appreciate that more than I can say.
This book made my Valentines' Day week, and I cannot wait to get into Katherine Center's other novels. She is an insightful, gifted writer, and this for me is a romantic masterpiece. It is definitely the best romance novel I have ever read!
Kate wrote: "I have a disability, and I have read very few if any books that feature characters with disabilities in romantic relationships. I can understand wishing Maggie would walk if you can also walk, but ..."
I'm so thankful for your thoughts on this. It helped me to see things in a bigger way and I love that. I am so glad you loved this book so much and I am so so glad that you enjoyed and appreciated this book so much. Thanks for sharing with us!
I'm so thankful for your thoughts on this. It helped me to see things in a bigger way and I love that. I am so glad you loved this book so much and I am so so glad that you enjoyed and appreciated this book so much. Thanks for sharing with us!

What I also loved what the positivity that came out of this read.
Life take turns for us all, and it’s how we handle it is what matters.
I fully agree with @kates comments

It’s personal, but something I wanted to share.
Some think for such a tragic thing that’s happened the author has made certain aspects too jovial.
My dad lost his leg, it was amputated after a tragic accident. Over 30 years ago now! And it WAS tragic and life changing for us all. The medics said he needed support and positivity. Each of us had a role to play. He reached suicidal point as this character does in the story. She gave herself a year.
Within a year things change, people change, circumstances change and the disabled person minds change along with those whose also had to adapt around them. What I’m saying is, doom and gloom helped no one. The IMMEDIATE effect is doom, it’s gloom, it’s the pits. But sooner or later you learn life goes on, but in a different way. Like traffic being diverted, the person and family and friends go down the diverted path of life.
I thought the author showed a good positive side to this.
So I hope no one minds....
I thought I’d share our experience with you



But i would like to add one other note: I SO appreciate Kate’s comments above. And i was super happy the book didn’t end in some miracle; that somehow she was able to walk again. A friend of my children who has become like a second daughter at 25 was involved in a car accident where she was the only injured person and only one wearing a seat belt (albeit lap belt only - in the back seat). She became a paraplegic and we have shared some of her struggles not only physically but emotionally as well. So I loved seeing Maggie befall in love, deal with all of the emotions following a life-altering situation.
Thanks Krista for another great pick. See you for Book of Boy!

But i would like to add one other note: I SO appreciate Kate’s comments ab..."
Kim, I so agree with your comments. Life doesn’t always come up smelling of roses does it. And stuff happens, we learn to make the best of it. I just loved this book and so glad it was chosen