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just rant. sometimes you need to. no judgement here.

don't you just love when your mommy issues rear their heads and you lose all motivation to just exist let alone do all the things you need to do because school is a thing

cause that's where i'm at rn

ok i got a lil rant here
so i got a bf a couple weeks ago (hes great love him) but we met in band, where theres like 20 of us but only 2 girls (me and my sister) and theres this really creepy guy there. hes never given me any attention thankfully but as soon as i said yes to bf hes kept asking me creepy questions about the relationship (and hes also been taking my stuff like randomly?) so i told my bf this and i dont really think that he got it (men 🙄) but he gets it enough. (at least hes trying <3) he just thinks that the guy is trying to give him crap for getting a gf before him, but im severely disgusted and creeped out and idk what to do.

ok rant over thanks guys <3

i’ve been watching never have i ever on netflix and im literally addicted. so naturally i went on pinterest to look em up and all the things. ended up spoiling who main chick ends up with. now i’m pissed👹

sorry ik this isnt exactly like what others usually rant abt but im mad abt it

life is such actual crap sometimes💪 like, I've been at really low points of my life before but this time, it's getting so bad and I have no one I want to talk to about it !! I feel like I use people as a distraction because once I'm alone or if it's quiet around me, there's the voice in my head that suddenly comes to life and destroys my self-esteem and love?? and everytime one of my family members even slightly raise their voice at me or make a face, this sense of dread fills me up on the spot, it feels like I'm suffocating, and like my heart just dropped dead🥰

mckenna (draco’s version) wrote: "i’ve been watching never have i ever on netflix and im literally addicted. so naturally i went on pinterest to look em up and all the things. ended up spoiling who main chick ends up with. now i’m ..."

SOTP THAT HAPPENED TO ME ONCE

niyya, you can text me whenever pookie <3
I have very similar problems. I just start crying when people are mad

☾⋆ Moon ⋆☾ (Hyo-seop & Grayson's wife) wrote: "life is such actual crap sometimes💪 like, I've been at really low points of my life before but this time, it's getting so bad and I have no one I want to talk to about it !! I feel like I use peopl..."

Totally understand that feeling. No pressure to do so but I am willing to listen if you ever need to talk

Nour wrote: "niyya, you can text me whenever pookie <3
I have very similar problems. I just start crying when people are mad"

mwah, thank u<33 you too habibti, my pms are there for uuu

Deborah wrote: "☾⋆ Moon ⋆☾ (Hyo-seop & Grayson's wife) wrote: "life is such actual crap sometimes💪 like, I've been at really low points of my life before but this time, it's getting so bad and I have no one I want..."

thank youuu<33 u toooo

I AM GOING INSANE

I have inflammation on my cheek and it HURTS so I told my parents they told me to take advil and I did. Hasn’t done anything and I can’t eat and I’ve been crying from how bad it hurts

talk to your parents again you probably need to go to a doctors of some sort. If they wont take you its a type of neglect

noo i hope you feel better soon 🫶🏼🫶🏼

I don't want to get to in detail about it but my "best friend" that has been ignoring me for 4 weeks just performed a poem for theater and it was a direct attack on me and another friend?! And yesterday my other "friend" was horrible to me in choir, we were picking groups for a project and even though I'm her "best friend" she ignored me, excluded me, and then pawned me off to a group with someone who makes me visibly uncomfortable?! Why can't I find any good people in this school I have like 2 friends left.

Feel that so many people at school that I was close friends with but stuff happened and they pretty much hate me now. Only have two good friends at this point

okay so I had my first kiss yesterday and obviously I told my parents about it, and they were fine because we had a discussion about it beforehand but now my dad is like GOING OFF because he's not okay with me having a second kiss yet like WHAT DO YOU MEAN?? I don't know what you want from me!! he's like I don't want you guys to kiss after school, because we hang out after school, and I'm like but there's no other time like when do you think we're gonna kiss again, idk how to explain my frustration its like you cant plan out everything we're not like gonna be making out or having sex like calm tf down it's okay. anyway I'm just so pissed off rn sorry

😭that's crazy

"you can have a first kiss but not a second kiss" girl what

That's ridiculous

I know I've tried everything but he wont understand idk what to do😭😭😭 does anyone have any advice??

Give him some space... I remembered my dad acting the same way. Give it a day or so and then talk when it is not as fresh. In my opinion he is scared that he is gonna loose you.

I feel that I went through somthing but with a lot more people.

Lauren wrote: "Give him some space... I remembered my dad acting the same way. Give it a day or so and then talk when it is not as fresh. In my opinion he is scared that he is gonna loose you."

he thinks I'm going to move too fast and not be in control of myself anymore, which isn't true at all, but I get his worry.
thanks for the advice I think that's what I'm going to do <3

enne!!! (member of ttpd) {semi-hiatus} wrote: "Lauren wrote: "Give him some space... I remembered my dad acting the same way. Give it a day or so and then talk when it is not as fresh. In my opinion he is scared that he is gonna loose you."

he..."
your welcome! May the force be with you

I feel that

enne, that’s so frustrating! what do you mean you can’t have a second kiss??? who says that? it’s not like kissing automatically means you’re going to have sex??? hopefully in a couple days he’ll calm down? I don’t know Enne, this is tough and I’m sorry :(

what lauren said is also super helpful!

✧˖° Zoe (semi-hiatus) ✧˖° wrote: "enne, that’s so frustrating! what do you mean you can’t have a second kiss??? who says that? it’s not like kissing automatically means you’re going to have sex??? hopefully in a couple days he’ll c..."

thanks :( i'm just going to give him some time to process, this is kind of my first REAL relationship so I know he just needs to process but I'm just pissed lol

enne!!! (member of ttpd) {semi-hiatus} wrote: "okay so I had my first kiss yesterday and obviously I told my parents about it, and they were fine because we had a discussion about it beforehand but now my dad is like GOING OFF because he's not ..."

what the flip 😭 why he a bot

ok little rant bc I can't really tell anyone I know personally this but I used to have the biggggesttt crush on this guy last year and he liked me too for a little bit, but it fell apart because I had family issues at the time
y'all I think he's stalking me now cause I literally see him everywhere.
I went to this SAT practice group like 20min from my house and he's the only person from my school who goes there, we don't have any classes together but he's always just outside my classes "talking to his friends" even coming inside them sometimes
I skipped class and went to the mall and he was just THERE
ok, obviously he's not stalking me, but it's driving me crazy and I can't help but feel like... idk, maybe he wants to see me or something
I thought this was just me being crazy and thinking he's obsessed with me BUT I SWEAR TO GOD BRO
I just saw him (again) with his friends, and out of my peripheral I saw them tapping his shoulder n shi when they saw me walk by, and they all turned back to look at me
like I'm not even friends with any of them either so its just weird weird weird
what does this freaking mean bro what do I dooo

woo him

Ella you're so real for that 🎀🎀🎀🥰🥰💞💞🐺🐺🐺🐺🎀🎀👹👹👺👹👹👺👹👹👺

mckenna (draco’s version) wrote: "i’ve been watching never have i ever on netflix and im literally addicted. so naturally i went on pinterest to look em up and all the things. ended up spoiling who main chick ends up with. now i’m ..."

NHIE slaps so hard ive watched it at LEAST 4 times, which team are you on?

enne!!! wrote: "okay so I had my first kiss yesterday and obviously I told my parents about it, and they were fine because we had a discussion about it beforehand but now my dad is like GOING OFF because he's not ..."

this is so something my parents would do... maybe you should let them meet the guy so that they trust you guys more..?

nessa wrote: "ok little rant bc I can't really tell anyone I know personally this but I used to have the biggggesttt crush on this guy last year and he liked me too for a little bit, but it fell apart because I ..."

it sounds like he likes you 🤭 maybe if you still like him you should like approach him and befriend him or something? idkkkk I would say shoot ur shot but thats scaryyy

my rant now 🤭

alright so basically ive just started at a new school and I feel like such an npc, like I try my best to include myself in conversation but its just awkward bc I had the same friends for so long, so I havent done the small talk thing in so long. 😔

also I hate teenage boys so much (#RELUCTANT heterosexual) bc like all the boys think its so funny to be racist. they keep calling each other sniggers, LIKE WHY WOULD YOU CALL SOMEONE A SNIGGER if you weren't trying to say the n word 🤨 and I swear ive heard a few of them say it before.. also they keep catcalling me 😔 if I never hear the word GYAT again it will be too soon.. also they act like they're 3 years old bc they keep pretending to ask the girls out, I thought that was something they only did in movies, and its not like they are celebrity hot anyways. I could say so much more because they say such problematic and stupid things it physically makes me angry but im gonna end the rant here for now 🙏🏽

**if you're a teenage boy i'm sorry, its def not all of you but it's the ones at my school

✪ ♡ mona (the tortured poet) ♡ ✪ wrote: "don't you just love when your mommy issues rear their heads and you lose all motivation to just exist let alone do all the things you need to do because school is a thing

cause that's where i'm at rn"

more real than i'd like... I could prolly write pages about my relationship with my mum

hannah wrote: "ok i got a lil rant here
so i got a bf a couple weeks ago (hes great love him) but we met in band, where theres like 20 of us but only 2 girls (me and my sister) and theres this really creepy guy t..."

oh no 💔
you could try communicating with the creep himself, but I know that men can sometimes not be receptive so id get why you wouldn't do that. other than that, I'd prolly just make sure to always stay with your sister and bf whenever you are in band

@adey

I’m sorry, that sucks. I’ve never really been the new kid, I just went to a different middle school than all my friends (not really my friends anymore) and it was super difficult at first. I’m sorry you feel like an npc.
You could always try and go up to different people every day and see what happens.
also, those boys suck. literally every boy last year would say the n word and none of the were ‘allowed’ too. have you tried talking to the office? i’m sorry, this situation is hard but i’m always here to listen.

Madeline wrote: "I don't want to get to in detail about it but my "best friend" that has been ignoring me for 4 weeks just performed a poem for theater and it was a direct attack on me and another friend?! And yest..."

oh my god that sucks tc i know how that feels:( my dms are always open

enne!!! wrote: "okay so I had my first kiss yesterday and obviously I told my parents about it, and they were fine because we had a discussion about it beforehand but now my dad is like GOING OFF because he's not ..."

damm my parents would seriously kill me if they knew ive even kissed my bf, i hid my relationship for like a year cuz of how strict they are but just maybe try to communicate w them, write them a letter or smthg idkkk tcc

☆adey☆ {semi-hiatus} wrote: "my rant now 🤭

alright so basically ive just started at a new school and I feel like such an npc, like I try my best to include myself in conversation but its just awkward bc I had the same friends..."

omg the guys at my school are assholes literally, some really have no manners like im not saying anything to them and they annoy the f out of me like why????????????

☆adey☆ {semi-hiatus} wrote: "my rant now 🤭

alright so basically ive just started at a new school and I feel like such an npc, like I try my best to include myself in conversation but its just awkward bc I had the same friends..."

about the boys, just ignore them completely, at least the boys I've known only want to get the attention of others and do stupid things to achieve it because their parents don't pay attention to them lol idk about the racist thing bc im from south america and we dont have smt like that but never ever accept bs from anyone one day a guy in my class told me that in the future someone would r@pe me, another guy loved to call me kitty in front of others but he couldn't even talk to me because he got nervous. In short it is a pure facade if you confront them they break

ok i'm just ranting bc i really think it's weird but i was a huge fan of pll i whatched the show when i was in middle school and didn't know sasha pieterse who was allison dilaurentis was 12 at this time ! She kissed actors who were 21 at this time, she was filmed in bra, and the WORST is her current husband she met when she was 14 and he was 20, when she was 16 she was saw with him on a boat he was 22!! They dated when she wasn't even underage !! I rant it out again after years bc current weird posts he keep filming her doing sexual things on the camera, he's obsessed with her boobs and post it everywhere they have a son now... I find their very weird it smells grooming she's 28 now hope her the best

I'm sorry for the rant but the older i get the weirder those tv show i whatched were !!

♯ annie ♥❜ wrote: "☆adey☆ {semi-hiatus} wrote: "my rant now 🤭

alright so basically ive just started at a new school and I feel like such an npc, like I try my best to include myself in conversation but its just awkw..."

niki♡ˊˎ- wrote: "☆adey☆ {semi-hiatus} wrote: "my rant now 🤭

alright so basically ive just started at a new school and I feel like such an npc, like I try my best to include myself in conversation but its just awkw..."

✧˖° Zoe (semi-hiatus) ✧˖° wrote: "@adey

I’m sorry, that sucks. I’ve never really been the new kid, I just went to a different middle school than all my friends (not really my friends anymore) and it was super difficult at first. I..."

>>men

also thanks guys x

#maluis˗ˏ¡! ❞┆彡 wrote: "ok i'm just ranting bc i really think it's weird but i was a huge fan of pll i whatched the show when i was in middle school and didn't know sasha pieterse who was allison dilaurentis was 12 at thi..."

past tv was a different breed fr

how do I stop liking someone who is probably not boyfriend material at all but he’s hot

I feel like such crap rn, someone on GR that I really liked being friends with unfriended me because of a joke but I now see that it wasn't actually funny and I feel so bad and disgusting and yeah👍

Moon☽༊ ‧˚ {Semi-hiatus} wrote: "I feel like such crap rn, someone on GR that I really liked being friends with unfriended me because of a joke but I now see that it wasn't actually funny and I feel so bad and disgusting and yeah👍"

oh:( that sucks take care!! and u can always talk to me , my dms are open <3