twilight lovers! discussion

i wanted to post this topic because there are some people, like me, that have been hurt like bella because they've had jacobs and edwards in their lifes.
you do not have to write your experiance unless you want to, and if not just say yes or no.

awwwwwwwwwww. I havent but reading your post really made me go "aw" That is so sweet.

I have been in a similar situation and unfortunately I chose to date my best friend...in the end I lost him not only as a boyfriend but also as a friend and I never did find out what could have been with the other one.

that must have been tough.
something like that happened to me.
see i kinda of have a boyfriend and his brother (david) is my best friend, hes like the brother i never had.
the thing is that my kinda of boyfriend is away at college and only comes in the summer.
well so he came for spring break a couple of months ago. the first days that he was here, david stopped going to my house and when i would go to his house he was usually in a bad mood. I thought he was just going through a phase. so a month a go, while we were at our church, i asked him why he was acting wierd.
and he said that he loved me, i was like what!!??
and i told him that he must be mistaking our brotherly love with love love. he said that he was sure of it and i told him that i was in love with his brother. but he pressed his finger to my lips and told me to be silent. he hugged me and tryed to kiss me (i've never been kissed) and i puched him with my wrist and i broke his nose and i ran away.
then the next day he said that i had never been his friend and that i had been a hypocrite. that really tore me apart. later that knight i get a call from his sister telling me that david was beating up my guy. i went straight over to his house and yelled at him to stop.
the next day he left for college with his brother.
so i called him a week ago to ask if they were going to go to my 15th, my guy said yes but david said that it was a waste of time to b going to a spoiled brats 15th, i literally started to cry over the phone when i heard that.
it's just that here where i live a 15th is special in agirls live, adn i just want to have both of the people that i love the most at my 15th.
it's just that they're a part of my heart.

i know, i know it sounds pathetic, but it's true

but my guy isn't as handsome as edward, and my ex-friend isn't as cute as jacob

wow. thats rough. I'm sorry.

That's really rough...
but you've never kissed your boyfriend....
that's sucks

its just that hes never kissed me

and he my first boyfriend

ah k

Stephanie wrote: "I have been in a similar situation and unfortunately I chose to date my best friend...in the end I lost him not only as a boyfriend but also as a friend and I never did find out what could have bee..."

that must have hurt, i would hunt him down and say... HI!!!
and he will then run away freaked out

kidding, no but i would of still been glad to have him atleast like a friend, again.

totally

Al3th3a wrote: "Stephanie wrote: "I have been in a similar situation and unfortunately I chose to date my best friend...in the end I lost him not only as a boyfriend but also as a friend and I never did find out w..."

Yeah it was really tough and truth is after all was said and done I just really miss my best friend!!

I kind of have... You see, I went out with this boy called Will. This other boy i liked - Ben - had a girlfriend who was my best friend. Anyway, Will and Ben didnt really like each other so ben was saying stuff to make will dump me. In the end i went out with ben and will is just like a friend to me now. Luckily im still best friends with the girl ben dumped so that he could go out with me. :/

I usually have trouble understanding Bella but I can relate to her so well in Eclipse because I've been in that situation. It was two guys from work. Let's call them D* and S*. D's intentions were clear from the moment we met. It was my first day at work. There were tons of empty queues but he stood in mine for ages so that he could talk to me and boldly ask me out on a date. I was attracted to him, too, so I agreed to go out with him. S's intentions weren't so clear. I already knew him through a family member and we hung out a lot - playing video games, chilling at each other's house, listening to music and watching DVDs. Maybe I was naive but I thought we were just good friends. D then told me I had to choose between them because S admitted he had feelings for me. I chose D because S almost felt like a brother to me and I had a feeling it would never work out. I didn't want to risk our friendship but I lost him anyway. Things didn't work out with D either so... yeah, I guess it wasn't meant to be. I sometimes wonder what would've happened if I chose S but I guess it doesn't matter anymore.

y d hell shud i b hurt?!?! if jake killed edward it WILL b an improvemant! an better yet if dey kill bella!!!!!!!!!!!

i've never had any Jakob/Edward scene in my life...but a few weeks ago,something happened that broke my heart and it was really like the scene in New Moon when Edward left Bella...

I had something like that but its funny because i ended up winning the girl that my former friend and i were going after. but we dated for about 2wks because we decided we were better off as friends.

At least you got to be friends in the end :D

yeah but the guy and i had became enemies cause he hated me after and we even got into a fist fight well it was more we grabed the same magazine and he therw it at me and the corner of the mag hit me in the eye and i punched him in the jaw so yeah

Who won? lol I should be asking were you both okay?

yea we was ok lol and of course i won cuz he back off while his face red and eyes watery lol

awww poor guy

Terry wrote: "yeah but the guy and i had became enemies cause he hated me after and we even got into a fist fight well it was more we grabed the same magazine and he therw it at me and the corner of the mag hit ..."

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG! That is crazy, I can see the scene playing out in my head which makes it so funny. He already hates you cuz you got his girl, and then you try to read HIS magazine! Wow! That is hilarious!

lol

I can kinda relate to how Bella feels in New Moon after Edward left... Not going to go into all the details. Then I met a friend a few months after, and that was confusing at times. Could be a long story so I'm sparing all the details!!

nope

In order for the story to be good Jacob and Edward have to fight. Whats the point. I'm not hurts by that.