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Jacinda is Self-Centered *Spoiler Maybe*
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Her sister is a big whiner...

I agree that killing off her Draki sucked, but her mother was trying to protect her from what the Tribe would make her do. Being in the new place helped her to be able to possibly have a normal high school life where she could just hang out with friends and go to the movies and stuff.

I do agree that her mom was trying to help her and that being in a new place helped her have a normal life, but the thing is, Jacinda isn't normal. There's no reason for her to have a normal life. I don't think there was any reason for the mom to want to kill of Jacinda's Draki if they moved far enough away from the tribe to protect her and keep her Draki intact.



But Jacinda's mother is killing part of her, of what she is. She thinks of Jacinda's happiness from her eyes only, from what she felt will be the right thing.
She forgets that Jacinda is what left of her kind, the fire-breather, the strongest one. It is not an easy task to kill her draki.
And Jacinda's mom seems to forget that a mother should accept what her kid is...:)

But I totally agree with all of you that it really does suck about the situation but mothers will go to all sorts of lengths to protect their children. I'm not saying she's right or it doesn't suck majorly for Jacinda. If there weren't any danger her mother wouldn't have done what she did.

The plot is necessary for Lucinda to be able to meet Will....:)

And exactly, she wouldn't have ever met Will if she'd stayed. =)

I understand why Jucinda's sister is the way she acts. Jucinda-
*Manifested
*She got cassian
*The whole Pride loves her
and now she finally gets what she wants A NORMAL LIFE AWAY FROM PRIDE and Jucinda ruined it and that she proably wont forgive her for.
Jucinda is all about her but i have to say she did try for her sister but she was gonna take off if she didnt know they wanted to clip her wings and make her a breeder. Then all of a sudden she was like 'oh i guess i should say' and then she had Will who saved her Draki.

I can agree that some of her decisions weren't thought through till the end and then it's easy to understand her sister's perspective by putting myself in her position and then to go back to were they didn't ever treat her right.

Jacinda can't help that she manifested and her sister didn't. And she didn't get Cassian. She didn't even want him and the whole pride loves her because what she can do but not for who she is. I don't see how any of that is her fault. But its easy for her to take the blame with all her sister's jealousy.
Jacinda wasn't jealous of her sister when she became popular and all that in the human world. But her sister still held on to her jealousy knowing that Jacinda was having a hard time and accused her of purposely trying to ruin everything for her every time Jacinda made a mistake. And Jacinda's sister is so caught up in herself that she lets her friends beat up on her sister. You can say that Jacinda's selfish for wanting to keep her Draki life but she was willing to leave the family she loves so they wouldn't be in any danger of the Draki clan because they would really punish her mother for taking her away. I think that her sister was the self-centered one completely and she sort of had right to be after sitting in the shadows all her life but I don't think that its right the way she treats Jacinda.




100% Agree!
I think the only reason why some people found her whiney was because her Draki was literally dying. Wouldn't you be upset if you were her? I'm not saying leaving wasn't the thing to do, but her mom and sister really didn't care that she was suffering.

I thought Jacinda handled it better than I would have. But I'll admit it, I can be a brat. It just blew my mind that her mom could take her some place that would literally KILL a part of who Jacinda was, and then show no compassion at all. They just expected her to let it die and move on. Simple as that. I guess because her mom never wanted that part of herself, she didn't understand how Jacinda could possibly want it. But still for a mother, I thought SHE was was the one who was very selfish.

"Normal" is relative. For Jacinda normal is being able to release her draki and be in a community with others similar to herself. Though her mother wanted to protect her, the process she took did not allow Jacinda to have any say in the matter. Jacinda is self centered, and so is her sister, but they are teens and that is normal. Their mother could have foind a way to let them both have a life they could enjoy, not shortchange one child and call it "for her own good"


Jacinda was expected to do things she didn't want to. then she became ok with living in the dessert once she found Will.
Tamra Had always grown up looked at as the "unfortunate sister" and it wasn't her falt so she blamed her sis.
Their mom might have been trying to protect her daughter, but she was really doing more harm then anything else. First She made Jacinda Move away from her childhood home, to the complete oppisite. then once Jacinda became happy with the place because of Will, Her mom forbid her from being around him.
But the story wouldn't have been the same if that wasn't their personality.

What she didn't have reason for was being so damn stupid as to maintain a relationship with a draki hunter - that foolishness was way more of a book breaker for me than her (legitimate albeit numerous) complaints

Although I don't usually read YA, I bought this book because the author is in the same writing group that I am. She is a very considerate person and a talented writer. I really enjoy her work.

And anyway, don't forget she's sixteen, I'd be more annoyed if she was a totally mature and grown-up girl, because that wouldn't be realistic.

As for being self centered, ya we knew that. She even admitted it, at least she noticed that in her self. Why she doesn't change that, I don't know.

Also if you remember ALL of it was Jacindas fault. Who insisted on flying in the day? Who was too special to follow the rules that applied to EVERYONE else for safety reasons? They weren't dumb rules, she almost got Azure killed and didn't care as long as she got to fly in the day....because it was more fun. She brought the censure of the clan on herself, which made her mom run rather than let them clip her.
Conclusion: Jacinda really is a self centered spoiled brat with a swollen ego. She didn't care about her family AT ALL. She had to have what she wanted constantly, and not all teenage characters have to be like that. I was so sick of her and her suicidal decisions I skimmed the second book.
I also like Tam. All she wanted was to have a chance to have people appreciate her and yeah, Jacindas little rebellion ruined it AGAIN with Will. I think she had a right to be pissed. The best part of the entire series is when she finds someone who actually ignores Jacinda and appreciates her.

i agree it got super annoying. She was either complaining about being stuck here or how she wished she could have Will.


I agree. The idea was great. But Jacinda being who she is killed it.

It wasn't just the mistakes, if the book is really good i can deal with mistakes (sometimes). What bothered me was the "reasoning" behind all her decisions was so twisted. She had serious entitlement issues and actually believed she had a right to make stupid decisions as long as they benefited her regardless of the consequences to ANYone else.



I see what your saying but her mom wasn't making it all about Jacinda. It ended up that way because Jacinda would not control herself. She was constantly getting in trouble like she did when she met Will. Her mom knew what they would do to her so she was always trying to clean up her mess, defending her, fighting the council. In the end that meant moving so they wouldn't clip her, not just to hide from dealing with the draki.

We were all paying attention....its why we are discussing the book. Fyi, excessive punctuation and caps lock doesn't make your point any clearer and is interpreted by many as yelling which is unnecessary.
Her mom chose the area least likely to be searched after Jacinda made some deliberately and repetitively stupid choices that endangered herself and others. It was a bad situation all around, but if Jacinda hadn't insisted on flying by day her draki would have been safe in the mountains. The location was a severe BUT well earned (if not deserved) consequence.

While Jacinda made some mistakes, my point still stands that her mother could have moved anywhere but chose the one place that would be most excruciating for her. Even if it was less likely to be searched, Cassian still found her, so it didn't even matter.



But her mom annoys me though.. making such decisions. i think that does give jacinda a reason to behave like she did..

lol she really didn't "just up and move to a desert"....she ran in the middle of the night to HIDE to prevent the council from clipping Jacindas wings for exposing the dragons, drawing hunters and almost getting herself and Azure caught by flying during the day...Why on earth would the mom have taken Jacinda somewhere where her Draki would thrive when all she would do is selfishly and stupidly repeat her actions until someone killed her? The mom was weighing her daughters life against her Draki, I can completely see why she chose as she did.
Nurlely wrote: "I like Jacinda. She is a strong girl. She managed to keep her draki although her mom seemed to dislike the idea.
Her sister is a big whiner..."
I agree jacindas mother moved so she wouldn't be a draki anymore she didn't want her to be who she truly was i would've acted just like her.
Her sister is a big whiner..."
I agree jacindas mother moved so she wouldn't be a draki anymore she didn't want her to be who she truly was i would've acted just like her.

I think you have the order backward... They move because of Jacindas behavior, so she was acting this way long before the Mom did anything. Remember how she met Will? Her being selfish and rebelling was not a result of her moms decisions, she just wanted her own way no matter what since the beginning. Its hard to hate her mMom when she was just doing damage control.

Exactly. In response to your earlier question, I dont remember exactly how he found her but he does. I skimmed the last book, and was really satisfied with Tam's story. Cassian got the short end of the stick obviously and has no happy ending unless you count not ending up with Jacinda a good thing; which I do. But back to Tam, I wish she had been the main character, there is tons of development there. She comes into her own, finds happiness AND takes charge and helps restructure the Draki council system to make it better. Jacinda of course, runs off with Will.
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