The first thing you need to do is relax coz your are not the first person to messed up your life and it's nothing which cannot be fixed. You need to understand one thing, at the end, we all are humans and we tend to make mistakes; sometimes they could be small but there are times when they could be devastating.

So, here's 8 ways to fix your messed up life -

8. Start Asking Right Questions- This would be your first step to start over. You have to get the basics right. You have to know what you doing and why? where it may lead you and is it all worth it? What drives you to do that thing? Just sit back and make a list of all the questions and start answering them one after another. Once you answer all the questions then go through them again and analyse whether it's really wroth doing whatever that you want to do? And if you chooses to do so then will it make any significant difference to your life in regards to what you already have right now? Coz in the end, you have to find a way or path which will help you in getting away from the present mess. So. put down the questions.

7. Kill Your Ego - Now that you already know that you have messed it up then there's no use in flaunting your ego, so get an axe and kill it. Coz what you really need right now, is lot and lot of help. And people will definitely not help you if they find you with your ego. And brace yourself to ask for 'HELP'. There's no shame in asking for help. We all need it, at some point or the other. So, best thing to do right now is to take off your ego and approach people for help.

6. Stop Assuming Beforehand - Since you have now taken off your ego then now its time to stop assuming things beforehand and taking decisions on basis of that assumptions. You don't know who might help you or don't it's not your job to decide that. As in right now, 'More the merrier' so stop assuming that certain individuals will not help you. Put this theory beside and go out and tell people that you need help.

5. Connect With Right People - You must have heard people saying that 'Surrounding Matters' and they were right coz it does. It's very important for you to be with people who understands your need and actions. There's no point in spending time with people who cannot inspire you to do anything, doesn't understands your work nature or cannot help you when you need them most. That is why, you have to find people who are like minded, join communities which deals with your work and passion. try to get in touch with people who are way lot experienced and successful as they may guide you and help you overcoming your problems. Find friends who are supportive and knows the real you. As connecting with wrong people is like throwing up stones at your own house.

4. Don't Panic - Nothing is as bad as it may seem at first glance so stop panicking coz it will only lead you to take more bad decisions. If you pay attention or reach on people who are very successful then there's one thing which you will find in every story; which is Patience. You cannot afford to panic and lose your patience, composure and intelligence all at once. These are your greatest weapons and if you lose them all, you are surely going to lose the battle and lose it badly.  SO, no matter how bad things may appear or get, keep you anti-panic mode always ON. And the other important thing which you must adapt in your lifestyle is that- THERE'S A SOLUTION TO EVERYTHING. Yes, there is. No matter how hard and impossible it may seem but if you look closely, think positively and work accordingly- then you would come with something which may help you to get out from that surrounding.

3. Let Other People Help You- This is one major problem which most people faces. You may think that you are the best person to do a thing or has the best way to do things and this is when you stop other people helping you coz you start thinking that you are to big to take any help from outside/others. There's no wrong in having people opinion's and thought over something and then you can decide what's best for you. If you look from other's perspective, then you are the only person who is gaining the most of it; as you get the best ideas and suggestions and you get to decide for the best interest. So, let other people help you so that you can help yourself.

2. Do Not Blame - If something fails then take the responsibilities and cope up with them, look for the right solutions and ways to fix it rather than start blaming others so that you can escape from what you have done. But you must know that there's no way out. You can blame  or do whatever you want but you cannot undo certain things which led you to the situation where you have to blame others. After all, it's your work, your creation, your life, your future and it's only you who can put all those broken pieces back together.

1. Take Chances- just coz you failed once, does't mean that you have to stop taking chances. Don't let your gut feeling die inside you. I'm not saying that you should start taking blind chances but at least you can take a little calculated risks so that it will always keep you ahed in your game and may help you regaining back your place and position. Coz nothing comes to those who wait and everything comes to those who know how to play and how far they can go to win the game.