I make plans all the time. Lists of things to do. I write them down on my schedule and then feel like a failure when I look back at that schedule and none of my plans were finished. Hell, I’m usually messing up the schedule a week later. Started, abandoned, and put aside for Life. Like Sara Cannon said in a Spa Girls podcast recently — the process of making plans brings hope. Which is why we keep doing it. 

But the reality, well… the reality is what it is. And that’s where the Serenity Prayer ki...