Lars Steenberg asked Alyssa Bailey:

Would you call it Domestic Discipline, if the woman accepts the spankings from her husband, but idoes not want to get spanked - i. e. a sort of Consensual Non-Consensual spanking relationship.?

Alyssa Bailey Domestic Discipline is the agreement between a couple that the male is the head of the household and if he feels she has violated agreed upon tenants of their marriage/ relationship, then he decides the punishment and she agrees to accept. The parameters are only for those who trust and are trust worthy with each other. I can tell you that you never want a punishment spanking and yet in DD it is accepted because it is who you are together. You don't want punishment but do want it in your relationship and rather crave what it gives you overall. So, yes. But it is never forced. If she really means no, then there is no spanking.

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