Jennifer asked Y.A. Salimu:

First, loved your book! Thank you for writing it. My question: If you were a parent to a kid like you, what advice would you give that parent?

Y.A. Salimu Very happy that you enjoyed it.

Before I give that advice, I will have to preface it with the fact that I do not have any kids. That being said, here goes:

First I'll tell you how I interpret the question. Because you say like me, and I think you mean a kid who is smart, loud, has a big ego, but also a compassionate heart. You could also pick up on a bunch of other traits I have, but I will answer the question as if this is what you meant.

The advice I would give that parent is... guide, but do not steer your child. You have a very special young person in your life who is going to critically think you into the ground if you let them ask you too many questions at once.

If it were me, I would allow a child like myself a higher level of autonomy, and parent through reflection and gentle suggestion. Everyone's parenting style is different though, and having a grown little 13 year old is a challenge I hope to never see the other side of.

Hope that helps... tootles ;-)

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