This morning I had a request for advice from someone who has a very difficult decision to make, and after replying to her, I realised others may find this process useful as well - it works for any difficult decision...

"I understand your dilemma - it's tricky to know whether to take the chance or not, and what will happen if you do. Here's what I suggest:

1. Decide not to decide for the moment.
Decide to wait a couple of days before making a decision.

2. Make sure you're treating yourself well - remember, this is the control panel for everything in your life. How you treat you (including what you say and think to yourself and about yourself) is setting the controls for what you experience from the world around you.

3. Do the unconditional love exercises - filling yourself with unconditional love first, then sending it to him and the whole situation. Send it to all possible scenarios - whether you go or whether you don't, and whatever the results may be - send love to all possibilities regardless.

4. After two days of this, decide you are going. Don't do anything about it yet, just "wear" the decision for one day. Decide you're going, and during the day take notice of how you're feeling.

5. The next day, decide you're not going. Again, for one day "wear" the decision that you're not going... and take notice during the day of how you're feeeeling.

You will know by then what the best thing is to do. :) This process will bring your instinctual knowledge to the surface. You know subconsciously what would be best to do, and this process will bring it to conscious awareness.

And, as always, follow what feels good in the moment - it will lead you to what you want even when it doesn't seem to have anything to do with it. ;)

Hope this helps.
Love and Light and Magic xxx"