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WITCH WEDDING FOR YOU
It's that time of year for weddings, and that includes witches, pagans and those who honor the goddesses.
Their wedding dresses and rituals could be a bit different from what we've grown to believe is the "norm" for after all, they are not the "norm" in society. There's the "jumping the broom" and hand fasting ribbons.
In my novel, "The Skye in June" the protagonist declares herself a witch. Now, why would a nice wee Catholic school girl do that?
Mark your calendar for this book as FREE eBook April 25th - the 29th. It's the book's 10th Anniversary. Happy to say, has sold every month since it's debut.
Read more about witch weddings at my blog page. http://witchgoddesses.blogspot.com/20...
More about my books and me at juneahern.com
The Skye in June
Their wedding dresses and rituals could be a bit different from what we've grown to believe is the "norm" for after all, they are not the "norm" in society. There's the "jumping the broom" and hand fasting ribbons.
In my novel, "The Skye in June" the protagonist declares herself a witch. Now, why would a nice wee Catholic school girl do that?
Mark your calendar for this book as FREE eBook April 25th - the 29th. It's the book's 10th Anniversary. Happy to say, has sold every month since it's debut.
Read more about witch weddings at my blog page. http://witchgoddesses.blogspot.com/20...
More about my books and me at juneahern.com
The Skye in June
WITCHES DO MARRY
Witches do marry -whether it be a handfasting ceremony and/or a legal affair (according to the man-made laws of the land).
My husband and I married both in a handfasting country New Year's Day ceremony in ‘02 and a civil ceremony in ’06.
Brides everywhere always have a great concern: What to wear?
What to wear? Witches can and do, wear traditional wedding clothing. The bride: a white gown or full ritual witch clothing. Where to buy witch clothing? You can put together a gown that might look like Elvira's maybe in white though rather than her black. Of course, wear black if you wish or visit a Renaissance or Celtic faire for capes and dresses. And, let us not forget that special sexy (witches are very sensual beings) undergarments, something a bit deliciously wicked!
Like other brides and grooms witches (includes pagans, Goddess' Worshippers and Wiccans) wish for their wedding vows, rituals and celebrations to be beautiful, memorable and reflective of their spiritual beliefs.
To have a wedding that is a true expression of witchcraft (pagan - Wiccan) beliefs and values witches begin with creating their own wedding vows––words that reflect true intentions and magic.
Vows: Create vows to be a sacred message for all to hear of your devotion to the goddess(es) and for some, the gods. Vows which declare the power, faith and devotion of your love for the intended as well as the purpose of uniting families. End your vows with saying Blessed Be or So Mote it Be (it's the truth or the truth is spoken), which is like saying Amen. You've sealed it.
Perhaps you would want to include a few ancestors - those who have gone on to the Underworld or Slumberland (heaven etc) who inspired and loved you. Those who have passed on can certainly be a positive part of your wedding as you bring them in through calling their names(s). Blessed be.
Another suggestion: after exchanging vows place the paper your vows are on in a circle on your wedding altar. The circle can be drawn before or at the time of the ceremony and made from small stones, crystals, shells or rose petals. Or you can choose to burn the while at the altar in a fire-proof container such as a table size cauldron or a larger one, like a fire pit. We burned our papers afterwards in a cauldron to send the words up to the ethers - the cosmos.
Scatter the ashes in a moving body of water or bury in the ground.
The altar: prepare it before before the ceremony. Place a white candle in the center and on the four corners of the altar place candles in the four directions: East (can be white or yellow), South: red, West: blue, and North, green.
Include four elements, fire (white candle) incense (air); water; a cup or bowl of water and Earth can be salt or a crystal. Flowers are beautiful on altars for all celebrations and they're a gift from the goddess. Add whatever else has meaning to you.
After our civil marriage ceremony my husband and I exchanged vows again at our reception. They were written on special paper (parchment)with selected colored pens. I also read an old Celtic poem.
We it a unity candle (two figures intertwined). The image candle was a man and woman united in wax. It burned throughout the reception in a safe fire-proof container away from guests bumping into it but where it could be seen.
At our the handfasting we had two separate image candles - ones we chose independently - my husband chose a green man and I, a red woman. They were placed in a pie pan facing each other. Oh, how fun to see the different colors of the candles blending together, becoming one melted wax design. A niece and nephew dressed up some Barbie dolls and placed them around the bottom of a tree trunk where we stood for the ceremony. The dolls, they said, were the forest fairies. It truly was fun and cold!
If you want to include family or friends to light the unity candle symbolizing the brining together of important people in both of your lives, ask from each family a parent, grandparent or child to light at the unity candle. My husband's daughter and my son lit separate candles and then presented them to each of us, which we lit the unity image candle.
As a minister when I officiate a wedding I provide two image or figure candles set on a platter and later after they have burned down, I “read” the wax combination for the couple. The reading includes how the couple will blend their lives together.
If older family members or guests of another religion perhaps consider including a piece or part of a conventional rituals or religious aspects in a show respect. It can help to bring them into accepting and celebrating your pagan union in a joyous way. The word God might be said, as would The Lady and The Lord, or a particular goddess, such as the Greek goddess Hera aka Juno Roman name, goddess of marriage.
Hanfasting: If you are exchanging rings afterwards blend in the handfasting ritual. Clasp hands and with the free hands tie a ribbon around the united hands. There are different colors of ribbons you can use. Research which ones appeal to you.
Jump the Broom - old pagan wedding ritual - at the altar stand within a circle drawn beforehand or the bride’s attendees can draw a circle around the couple before or after the vows are exchanged. After the vows one of your wedding party can lay the broom down for both to jump.
Jumping the broom marks the beginning of making a home together and symbolizes that the groom and bride physically and spiritually crossing the threshold into the land of matrimony. As they sweep away the old and the welcome the new they begin a new life together with a clean sweep!
Four Corners: Witch, Wiccan or pagan ceremonies and rituals begin the magic with Calling in the The Four Corners (Elements.) This can be done by the officiate - the High Priestess or Priest.
A wand or finger can be used as one moves around the four directions and a colored candle (see above) placed in each direction is lit.
• Face East - As we welcome the sun each morning, the dawn of a new day we welcome in energy of the east.
• Face South - As we welcome the spark of the day to spark the fire of my actions we welcome in the energy of the south
• Face West - As we leave my dream world we bring them forth into our waking day to manifest within the right time. We welcome the energy of the west.
• Face North - As we bring into form that which is manifesting, that which we work to create we welcome the energy of the north.
• All around: We welcome the powers of above, the powers from below and the powers all around.
After each direction is welcomed by the officiant or one or both of the couple the guests can participate by saying "Welcome!"
Here's a website to gather more information:
http://www.ceremonies.com.au/sitefile...
Anther four corner ritual: acknowledge the corners again in a different order. This is said by the couple:
• Face South: Fire: From fire comes love and warmth. The spark that created our passion. Welcome Fire!
• Face West: Water: Water is the giver and purifier of life, sustaining us, as it will this marriage.
• Face East: Air breaths new life into love. Giving both _______ and ______ the freedom to be themselves.
• Earth: The earth upon which we walk provides us with our home and our future.
Merry meet, merry part and merry meet again. Wishing you a very joyous union of love.
Handfasting and Wedding Rituals: Welcoming Hera's Blessing by Raven Kaldera suggests how to create a holy pagan/witch/Wiccan wedding.
How to Talk With Spirits: Séances, Mediums, Ghost Hunts
The Skye in June
My husband and I married both in a handfasting country New Year's Day ceremony in ‘02 and a civil ceremony in ’06.
Brides everywhere always have a great concern: What to wear?
What to wear? Witches can and do, wear traditional wedding clothing. The bride: a white gown or full ritual witch clothing. Where to buy witch clothing? You can put together a gown that might look like Elvira's maybe in white though rather than her black. Of course, wear black if you wish or visit a Renaissance or Celtic faire for capes and dresses. And, let us not forget that special sexy (witches are very sensual beings) undergarments, something a bit deliciously wicked!
Like other brides and grooms witches (includes pagans, Goddess' Worshippers and Wiccans) wish for their wedding vows, rituals and celebrations to be beautiful, memorable and reflective of their spiritual beliefs.
To have a wedding that is a true expression of witchcraft (pagan - Wiccan) beliefs and values witches begin with creating their own wedding vows––words that reflect true intentions and magic.
Vows: Create vows to be a sacred message for all to hear of your devotion to the goddess(es) and for some, the gods. Vows which declare the power, faith and devotion of your love for the intended as well as the purpose of uniting families. End your vows with saying Blessed Be or So Mote it Be (it's the truth or the truth is spoken), which is like saying Amen. You've sealed it.
Perhaps you would want to include a few ancestors - those who have gone on to the Underworld or Slumberland (heaven etc) who inspired and loved you. Those who have passed on can certainly be a positive part of your wedding as you bring them in through calling their names(s). Blessed be.
Another suggestion: after exchanging vows place the paper your vows are on in a circle on your wedding altar. The circle can be drawn before or at the time of the ceremony and made from small stones, crystals, shells or rose petals. Or you can choose to burn the while at the altar in a fire-proof container such as a table size cauldron or a larger one, like a fire pit. We burned our papers afterwards in a cauldron to send the words up to the ethers - the cosmos.
Scatter the ashes in a moving body of water or bury in the ground.
The altar: prepare it before before the ceremony. Place a white candle in the center and on the four corners of the altar place candles in the four directions: East (can be white or yellow), South: red, West: blue, and North, green.
Include four elements, fire (white candle) incense (air); water; a cup or bowl of water and Earth can be salt or a crystal. Flowers are beautiful on altars for all celebrations and they're a gift from the goddess. Add whatever else has meaning to you.
After our civil marriage ceremony my husband and I exchanged vows again at our reception. They were written on special paper (parchment)with selected colored pens. I also read an old Celtic poem.
We it a unity candle (two figures intertwined). The image candle was a man and woman united in wax. It burned throughout the reception in a safe fire-proof container away from guests bumping into it but where it could be seen.
At our the handfasting we had two separate image candles - ones we chose independently - my husband chose a green man and I, a red woman. They were placed in a pie pan facing each other. Oh, how fun to see the different colors of the candles blending together, becoming one melted wax design. A niece and nephew dressed up some Barbie dolls and placed them around the bottom of a tree trunk where we stood for the ceremony. The dolls, they said, were the forest fairies. It truly was fun and cold!
If you want to include family or friends to light the unity candle symbolizing the brining together of important people in both of your lives, ask from each family a parent, grandparent or child to light at the unity candle. My husband's daughter and my son lit separate candles and then presented them to each of us, which we lit the unity image candle.
As a minister when I officiate a wedding I provide two image or figure candles set on a platter and later after they have burned down, I “read” the wax combination for the couple. The reading includes how the couple will blend their lives together.
If older family members or guests of another religion perhaps consider including a piece or part of a conventional rituals or religious aspects in a show respect. It can help to bring them into accepting and celebrating your pagan union in a joyous way. The word God might be said, as would The Lady and The Lord, or a particular goddess, such as the Greek goddess Hera aka Juno Roman name, goddess of marriage.
Hanfasting: If you are exchanging rings afterwards blend in the handfasting ritual. Clasp hands and with the free hands tie a ribbon around the united hands. There are different colors of ribbons you can use. Research which ones appeal to you.
Jump the Broom - old pagan wedding ritual - at the altar stand within a circle drawn beforehand or the bride’s attendees can draw a circle around the couple before or after the vows are exchanged. After the vows one of your wedding party can lay the broom down for both to jump.
Jumping the broom marks the beginning of making a home together and symbolizes that the groom and bride physically and spiritually crossing the threshold into the land of matrimony. As they sweep away the old and the welcome the new they begin a new life together with a clean sweep!
Four Corners: Witch, Wiccan or pagan ceremonies and rituals begin the magic with Calling in the The Four Corners (Elements.) This can be done by the officiate - the High Priestess or Priest.
A wand or finger can be used as one moves around the four directions and a colored candle (see above) placed in each direction is lit.
• Face East - As we welcome the sun each morning, the dawn of a new day we welcome in energy of the east.
• Face South - As we welcome the spark of the day to spark the fire of my actions we welcome in the energy of the south
• Face West - As we leave my dream world we bring them forth into our waking day to manifest within the right time. We welcome the energy of the west.
• Face North - As we bring into form that which is manifesting, that which we work to create we welcome the energy of the north.
• All around: We welcome the powers of above, the powers from below and the powers all around.
After each direction is welcomed by the officiant or one or both of the couple the guests can participate by saying "Welcome!"
Here's a website to gather more information:
http://www.ceremonies.com.au/sitefile...
Anther four corner ritual: acknowledge the corners again in a different order. This is said by the couple:
• Face South: Fire: From fire comes love and warmth. The spark that created our passion. Welcome Fire!
• Face West: Water: Water is the giver and purifier of life, sustaining us, as it will this marriage.
• Face East: Air breaths new life into love. Giving both _______ and ______ the freedom to be themselves.
• Earth: The earth upon which we walk provides us with our home and our future.
Merry meet, merry part and merry meet again. Wishing you a very joyous union of love.
Handfasting and Wedding Rituals: Welcoming Hera's Blessing by Raven Kaldera suggests how to create a holy pagan/witch/Wiccan wedding.
How to Talk With Spirits: Séances, Mediums, Ghost Hunts
The Skye in June
TALK TO THE DEAD; EASY MEDITATION
Once again I'll share my blog from 2010 that has an easy, lovely meditation/ritual to communicate with spirits of those who've passed away.Talking is easier than listening, would you agree? Go to my share and learn to how to listen with open ears to the unseen spirit of your loved ones.
In the article telepathy is mentioned. Each of my non-fiction books, How to Talk With Spirits, Seances, Mediums, Ghost Hunts and The Timeless Counselor; The Best Guide to a Successful Psychic Reading includes my educational quiz about telepathy and you.
For a beautiful longer ritual of how to communicate with spirits, read my How to Talk with Spirit book available in paperback and ebook.
Invite me to talk to your group about paranormal, NDE and much more. www dot june ahern dot com
Now go to the blog with the meditation and please leave a comment of your experience after your communication
https://witchgoddesses.blogspot.com/2010/10/halloween-dress-up-dress-down-to-bone.html
