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An Introduction to Lovin Nature with Cynthia
Who is Cynthia? Who is Lovin’ Nature?
This past year has been an incredible journey—one of challenges, lessons, and blessings. It has shaped me, shifted my perspective, and left me forever changed. In searching for an outlet to express my gratitude and my desire to share the beauty I see in this world, I found Cynthia.
I didn’t even realize I was looking for her, but there she was—a deeper, more creative, and more vibrant part of me, waiting to emerge. Cynthia embodies the side of me that embraces creativity fully, steps beyond old barriers, and openly shares the beauty, wonder, and magic of life.
L❤️VIN' N🌳TURE is the essence of what I want to share—moments of peace, joy, and connection with the natural world and the universal energy that surrounds us. It’s a way to give back, to reflect the beauty I experience, and to invite others to see life in a new way.
This journey is inspired action, fueled by the Law of Attraction, aligned with the Law of Vibration, and deeply rooted in the belief that the universe responds when we open our hearts.
I am excited to walk this path, to share my experiences, and to let Cynthia and Lovin’ Nature lead the way. Thank you for being here as this journey unfolds.
❤️ Cynthia
This past year has been an incredible journey—one of challenges, lessons, and blessings. It has shaped me, shifted my perspective, and left me forever changed. In searching for an outlet to express my gratitude and my desire to share the beauty I see in this world, I found Cynthia.
I didn’t even realize I was looking for her, but there she was—a deeper, more creative, and more vibrant part of me, waiting to emerge. Cynthia embodies the side of me that embraces creativity fully, steps beyond old barriers, and openly shares the beauty, wonder, and magic of life.
L❤️VIN' N🌳TURE is the essence of what I want to share—moments of peace, joy, and connection with the natural world and the universal energy that surrounds us. It’s a way to give back, to reflect the beauty I experience, and to invite others to see life in a new way.
This journey is inspired action, fueled by the Law of Attraction, aligned with the Law of Vibration, and deeply rooted in the belief that the universe responds when we open our hearts.
I am excited to walk this path, to share my experiences, and to let Cynthia and Lovin’ Nature lead the way. Thank you for being here as this journey unfolds.
❤️ Cynthia
The Law of Relativity: A Shift in Perspective
🌿 The Law of Relativity: A Shift in Perspective 🌿
One year ago, I lost my job of more than 26 years. In that moment, I had a choice:
💭 See it as a loss—a challenge too big to face.
💡 See it as a shift—an opening to new possibilities.
The Law of Relativity teaches us that challenges are not absolute; they are relative to our perception. What may feel like devastation in one moment can later be revealed as a blessing in disguise. The way we choose to see and respond to change determines our growth.
I remain open to what this shift has created. I am proud of my journey. And now? Now, I feel more aligned each day, walking a path that feels authentic and purposeful. I have chosen to embrace curiosity, learning, and trust, knowing that life unfolds in its own divine timing.
The magic I have witnessed this past year has deepened my trust in the Universe. I’ve come to understand that when we shift our belief system to align with the outcomes we desire, life responds in ways we never imagined.
✨ This is real, friends. And it sure does feel like magic. ✨
🔹 Have you ever faced a challenge that turned out to be a blessing in disguise?
🔹 How has a shift in perspective helped you grow?
I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments! Let’s share and learn from each other. 💬💖
One year ago, I lost my job of more than 26 years. In that moment, I had a choice:
💭 See it as a loss—a challenge too big to face.
💡 See it as a shift—an opening to new possibilities.
The Law of Relativity teaches us that challenges are not absolute; they are relative to our perception. What may feel like devastation in one moment can later be revealed as a blessing in disguise. The way we choose to see and respond to change determines our growth.
I remain open to what this shift has created. I am proud of my journey. And now? Now, I feel more aligned each day, walking a path that feels authentic and purposeful. I have chosen to embrace curiosity, learning, and trust, knowing that life unfolds in its own divine timing.
The magic I have witnessed this past year has deepened my trust in the Universe. I’ve come to understand that when we shift our belief system to align with the outcomes we desire, life responds in ways we never imagined.
✨ This is real, friends. And it sure does feel like magic. ✨
🔹 Have you ever faced a challenge that turned out to be a blessing in disguise?
🔹 How has a shift in perspective helped you grow?
I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments! Let’s share and learn from each other. 💬💖
The Energy We Carry Matters
The energy we carry is powerful. It follows us into every space we enter, shaping our experiences and influencing those around us. Whether we realize it or not, our energy sets the tone for interactions, for conversations, and even for the silent moments in between. That’s why it’s so important to check in with ourselves—to become intentional about the energy we bring into the world.
This ties deeply into the Law of Relativity—the idea that challenges and circumstances are not absolute but rather shaped by how we perceive them. Life will always present contrast. But contrast is not punishment; it’s perspective. Grief is only possible because of love. Struggles reveal strength. Hard times show us just how deeply we can feel. It’s not always easy, and some moments ask us to dig deeper than others, but no matter what, there is always goodness to be found.
When we encounter others who are struggling, it can feel natural to meet them in their pain, but there is another way. Instead of sinking into the darkness, we can choose to be a steady light. Empathy and sympathy go hand in hand, but true support means bringing high-flowing energy—the kind that lifts, reassures, and reminds people that they are not alone. That doesn’t mean ignoring pain or forcing positivity, but rather holding space for healing, hope, and possibility.
We are always influencing the world around us. Every thought, every word, every interaction—small shifts in perspective can create ripples that reach far beyond what we can see. Let’s be intentional with our energy. Let’s build each other up. Let’s keep the love flowing. ❤️
What are some ways you check in with yourself and shift your energy when needed? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments!
This ties deeply into the Law of Relativity—the idea that challenges and circumstances are not absolute but rather shaped by how we perceive them. Life will always present contrast. But contrast is not punishment; it’s perspective. Grief is only possible because of love. Struggles reveal strength. Hard times show us just how deeply we can feel. It’s not always easy, and some moments ask us to dig deeper than others, but no matter what, there is always goodness to be found.
When we encounter others who are struggling, it can feel natural to meet them in their pain, but there is another way. Instead of sinking into the darkness, we can choose to be a steady light. Empathy and sympathy go hand in hand, but true support means bringing high-flowing energy—the kind that lifts, reassures, and reminds people that they are not alone. That doesn’t mean ignoring pain or forcing positivity, but rather holding space for healing, hope, and possibility.
We are always influencing the world around us. Every thought, every word, every interaction—small shifts in perspective can create ripples that reach far beyond what we can see. Let’s be intentional with our energy. Let’s build each other up. Let’s keep the love flowing. ❤️
What are some ways you check in with yourself and shift your energy when needed? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments!
Meditation – A Powerful Tool
I believe in the power of meditation. For years, I’ve turned to it to calm my mind, reset my energy, and create space for clarity, even though I still don’t fully understand how it works. But one thing is certain—it does work. And the busier life feels, the more I recognize the need to pause, breathe, and allow the magic to happen.
For many people, the idea of quieting the mind feels overwhelming—especially for those who need it most. If that’s you, I encourage you to start anyway. Meditation isn’t about achieving perfect stillness or stopping all thoughts. It’s about giving yourself the time and space to simply be.
Begin with just five minutes. No pressure, no expectations—just sit and let your thoughts flow. Observe them, rather than trying to control them. Ask yourself:
🌀 Is this thought important?
🌊 Is it something I can change?
🍃 Is it something beyond my control?
Let them sort themselves out. Over time, you may start to gently push thoughts aside, even for just a few moments. You don’t have to force silence—simply redirect your focus. Maybe it’s your breath, a soft background sound, or even the subtle rhythm of your own heartbeat.
Your mind will wander. That’s okay. Each time it does, simply guide yourself back to your focus point. No frustration, no judgment—just practice.
Like anything worthwhile, meditation takes time and patience. But trust me, it’s worth it. Soon, your mind will begin to crave this stillness. It becomes a sacred space, a place of renewal, a tool that helps you navigate life’s chaos with more ease and clarity.
💬 Is meditation a part of your life? I’d love to hear your experience—how did you get started, and where do you fit it into your day? Let’s share and inspire each other. 💙
For many people, the idea of quieting the mind feels overwhelming—especially for those who need it most. If that’s you, I encourage you to start anyway. Meditation isn’t about achieving perfect stillness or stopping all thoughts. It’s about giving yourself the time and space to simply be.
Begin with just five minutes. No pressure, no expectations—just sit and let your thoughts flow. Observe them, rather than trying to control them. Ask yourself:
🌀 Is this thought important?
🌊 Is it something I can change?
🍃 Is it something beyond my control?
Let them sort themselves out. Over time, you may start to gently push thoughts aside, even for just a few moments. You don’t have to force silence—simply redirect your focus. Maybe it’s your breath, a soft background sound, or even the subtle rhythm of your own heartbeat.
Your mind will wander. That’s okay. Each time it does, simply guide yourself back to your focus point. No frustration, no judgment—just practice.
Like anything worthwhile, meditation takes time and patience. But trust me, it’s worth it. Soon, your mind will begin to crave this stillness. It becomes a sacred space, a place of renewal, a tool that helps you navigate life’s chaos with more ease and clarity.
💬 Is meditation a part of your life? I’d love to hear your experience—how did you get started, and where do you fit it into your day? Let’s share and inspire each other. 💙
Daydreaming: A Powerful Gift of Self-Love
Daydreaming is often dismissed as an idle pastime, but I have come to understand it as an act of deep self-love. It is in these quiet, imaginative moments that the seeds of our future are planted. Some dreams need constant watering—attention, effort, belief—while others, once rooted, take on a life of their own, growing and thriving in ways we never expected.
One of my most persistent and powerful dreams has been to travel frequently and fearlessly. But beyond that, my deeper intention has been to teach my children to explore the world without fear. Somewhere along the way in my small-town upbringing, I internalized an invisible boundary—a quiet belief that I wasn’t ready for the big, wide world. I never found the gentle encouragement I needed to push past that hesitation, so I built it myself.
I built a life where travel wasn’t just an indulgence—it was a necessity for growth and understanding. Over the past twenty years, we have taken many family trips, each one reinforcing this lesson in its own way. A dear friend once told me to budget for travel as if it were as essential as food and shelter, and I took that to heart. Some years we embarked on grand adventures; others, we stayed local and explored what was within reach. This year, I’m starting local again—and who knows what the future holds? I remain open.
Three Trips That Changed Everything
Among all of our adventures, three trips stand out in my heart as defining moments in our journey.
1. Disney: A Defiant Act of Healing
Our first trip to Disney was an act of defiance against grief. That year, I lost my dad, and the pain was unlike anything I had ever experienced. In the face of that loss, I ran—1,500 miles away. I ran from the void he left behind, from the weight of his absence in my family. I ran away from my mother and my siblings. I left them with the void of my father and the absence of my small family during Christmas. I am not proud of that. Looking back, I was focused on the hurt and I really couldn’t see that my presence would matter to others. They had each other, and I was focused on myself and my small family. I was just beginning to understand the power of shifting my awareness, of choosing to focus on the positive. My solution? Take my small family to the happiest place on Earth.
I don’t regret it. That trip was a significant push past my travel fears, a new experience to build upon. But I also learned that travel, like life, does not always go as planned. I allowed for just one day at Disney, and my anxiety got the best of me. Long lines, broken rides, spilled ice cream, and even a migraine that left me collapsed on the floor of a public restroom—it was a day full of challenges. Yet even in that chaos, I see now that the experience was part of the journey. Lessons learned. Foundations built. The importance of alignment planted a seed.
2. Fifteen Days in Florida: The Art of Letting Go
The next trip that stands out was our fifteen-day adventure through Florida in February 2016. This was everything I had hoped for in a close family vacation—fifteen days of living out of a truck and a motel room, planning each day as it came. No rigid itinerary, no overthinking—just going where the day led us. It was the first time I truly let go and trusted the journey. That trip taught me that structure has its place, but there is magic in surrendering to the moment and believing dreams come true, big and small.
3. 2019: A Cross-Country Road Trip, Perfect Timing
This trip was the most powerful and transformative one yet. I had been dreaming of a cross-country road trip for over a decade, but I always held back. The timing never felt right. The budget never seemed to stretch far enough. I feared taking too much from our family’s resources or disrupting future plans—not to mention trying to schedule the time away from work.
But in 2019, the tug was undeniable. It was now or never. My children were growing up. Would we ever be able to pull this off again? This year was not our best year. Loss and sickness had a great impact over our home and happiness. 2019 was full of challenges. Logic would tell me this definitely was not a year for a family vacation. But the pull was strong—that now or never feeling just wouldn’t go away. And my family needed healing. For me, there is no better answer to healing of all kinds than to seek time in nature. I didn’t know it at the time, but looking back, I can see the divine timing of it all.
That summer, I secured nearly three weeks off from work, and that wasn’t easy to do. Defiance at work was not my usual way, but this one required me to stand my ground and compromises were made. We packed up our pickup truck with camping supplies and bicycles. We spent 20 of 25 days living out of that truck, crossing vast landscapes, soaking in the openness and beauty of this country. The experience was overwhelming in the best way. The growth and healing that took place cannot quite be put into words. It was a treasure of a trip, and I can’t wait to get back out there and build upon it.
The Future: Remaining Open
I don’t know where our next big adventure will take us, but I do know this: travel, in any form, is an act of expansion. Whether it’s a local road trip or a cross-country journey, every experience has a way of reshaping who we are.
The lesson in all of this? Give yourself the time and space to daydream. Let those visions take root. Some will require consistent care, others will flourish naturally. Either way, the act of dreaming is an act of self-love—and one of the most powerful gifts you can give yourself.
This year, I begin again, staying open to the possibilities.
Where will your next adventure take you?
One of my most persistent and powerful dreams has been to travel frequently and fearlessly. But beyond that, my deeper intention has been to teach my children to explore the world without fear. Somewhere along the way in my small-town upbringing, I internalized an invisible boundary—a quiet belief that I wasn’t ready for the big, wide world. I never found the gentle encouragement I needed to push past that hesitation, so I built it myself.
I built a life where travel wasn’t just an indulgence—it was a necessity for growth and understanding. Over the past twenty years, we have taken many family trips, each one reinforcing this lesson in its own way. A dear friend once told me to budget for travel as if it were as essential as food and shelter, and I took that to heart. Some years we embarked on grand adventures; others, we stayed local and explored what was within reach. This year, I’m starting local again—and who knows what the future holds? I remain open.
Three Trips That Changed Everything
Among all of our adventures, three trips stand out in my heart as defining moments in our journey.
1. Disney: A Defiant Act of Healing
Our first trip to Disney was an act of defiance against grief. That year, I lost my dad, and the pain was unlike anything I had ever experienced. In the face of that loss, I ran—1,500 miles away. I ran from the void he left behind, from the weight of his absence in my family. I ran away from my mother and my siblings. I left them with the void of my father and the absence of my small family during Christmas. I am not proud of that. Looking back, I was focused on the hurt and I really couldn’t see that my presence would matter to others. They had each other, and I was focused on myself and my small family. I was just beginning to understand the power of shifting my awareness, of choosing to focus on the positive. My solution? Take my small family to the happiest place on Earth.
I don’t regret it. That trip was a significant push past my travel fears, a new experience to build upon. But I also learned that travel, like life, does not always go as planned. I allowed for just one day at Disney, and my anxiety got the best of me. Long lines, broken rides, spilled ice cream, and even a migraine that left me collapsed on the floor of a public restroom—it was a day full of challenges. Yet even in that chaos, I see now that the experience was part of the journey. Lessons learned. Foundations built. The importance of alignment planted a seed.
2. Fifteen Days in Florida: The Art of Letting Go
The next trip that stands out was our fifteen-day adventure through Florida in February 2016. This was everything I had hoped for in a close family vacation—fifteen days of living out of a truck and a motel room, planning each day as it came. No rigid itinerary, no overthinking—just going where the day led us. It was the first time I truly let go and trusted the journey. That trip taught me that structure has its place, but there is magic in surrendering to the moment and believing dreams come true, big and small.
3. 2019: A Cross-Country Road Trip, Perfect Timing
This trip was the most powerful and transformative one yet. I had been dreaming of a cross-country road trip for over a decade, but I always held back. The timing never felt right. The budget never seemed to stretch far enough. I feared taking too much from our family’s resources or disrupting future plans—not to mention trying to schedule the time away from work.
But in 2019, the tug was undeniable. It was now or never. My children were growing up. Would we ever be able to pull this off again? This year was not our best year. Loss and sickness had a great impact over our home and happiness. 2019 was full of challenges. Logic would tell me this definitely was not a year for a family vacation. But the pull was strong—that now or never feeling just wouldn’t go away. And my family needed healing. For me, there is no better answer to healing of all kinds than to seek time in nature. I didn’t know it at the time, but looking back, I can see the divine timing of it all.
That summer, I secured nearly three weeks off from work, and that wasn’t easy to do. Defiance at work was not my usual way, but this one required me to stand my ground and compromises were made. We packed up our pickup truck with camping supplies and bicycles. We spent 20 of 25 days living out of that truck, crossing vast landscapes, soaking in the openness and beauty of this country. The experience was overwhelming in the best way. The growth and healing that took place cannot quite be put into words. It was a treasure of a trip, and I can’t wait to get back out there and build upon it.
The Future: Remaining Open
I don’t know where our next big adventure will take us, but I do know this: travel, in any form, is an act of expansion. Whether it’s a local road trip or a cross-country journey, every experience has a way of reshaping who we are.
The lesson in all of this? Give yourself the time and space to daydream. Let those visions take root. Some will require consistent care, others will flourish naturally. Either way, the act of dreaming is an act of self-love—and one of the most powerful gifts you can give yourself.
This year, I begin again, staying open to the possibilities.
Where will your next adventure take you?
