Stephanie Lahart's Blog - Posts Tagged "inspiration"

I will not give up on me. For I have been down that road before. I remember what it’s like to walk away from something that I was so passionate about. I remember what it’s like to walk away from my dreams. I know what it feels like to settle for less than what I deserve. I know what it feels like to pretend that everything is okay when on the inside I’m hurting and full of pain. I know what it feels like to have sleepless nights…tossing and turning, wondering if things will ever change.

I know what it feels like to be waiting by the phone, hoping that you’ll call. I know what it feels like when you love somebody and they don’t love you back. I know what it feels like to give your heart to someone over, and over, and over again. I know what it feels like to be lied to…it didn’t seem to faze you one bit. I know what it feels like to not be put first in someone’s life because drugs and alcohol have the first priority. I know what it feels like to have low self-esteem. I KNOW…I KNOW! I know what it’s like to have a child and you think that it’s going to be the changing factor in your relationship. I know what it feels like to love someone so much, and yet they still don’t get it.

I know what it’s like to give up on me. I now know just how important I am. I count, and I deserve the VERY best!I am special…I am loving…I am loyal…I am beautiful on the inside…I am strong, and I am worthy and deserving of genuine love. I know my self-worth, so I will not give up on me! I will not give up on me! I will NOT give up on me! I am NOT a victim, I am victorious. Amen!

I want my readers to see themselves in this passage. Keep telling yourself that you won’t give up on YOU. Keep saying it until you believe it. Keep saying it until you achieve it. Do NOT give up on you. You’re much too important. Believe that!
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I know that you may be going through some really tough and trying times right now, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re still dealing with the hurt and the pain from your past, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you feel like giving up and throwing in the towel, but, please don’t, you’re going to be okay. I know that you feel like you just can’t take it anymore, but keep on pushing anyways, you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of being mistreated and misunderstood, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of everybody depending on you when you wish you had somebody to depend on, but, you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of always having to be the strong one for the family, but you’re going to be okay.

I know that you’re tired of your kids giving you a hard time, but you’ll be okay. I know that you’re tired of working long hours and still having to struggle to get by, but, no worries, you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of all the fussing and fighting, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of feeling lonely and wish that you had somebody to love, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of being sick in your body, but, by God’s grace and mercy, you will be healed. You’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of disappointing yourself and others that love and care for you, but it’s going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of pretending like you have it all together when all hell is breaking loose in your life, but be encouraged, ALL is well.

You’re going to be okay because our God is in control. He will give you peace in the midst of a storm. All you have to do is talk to him. There is no right or wrong way to talk to him. Just talk to him like you’re talking to a regular person. He knows all and he sees all. He knows our struggles. He knows our pain. He knows our disappointments. He knows, He KNOWS! We can depend on God to see us through. Make no mistake about that. He loves and cares for us. Everything works together for the good of those who love the Lord. Not some things, but ALL things. You’re going to be okay!
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Are you “in love” with the one that you’re with, or did you settle? Many people are in relationships that they aren't fully committed to. On the outside, their relationship looks perfect, but on the inside, their heart belongs to somebody else.

My heart goes out to people that are in relationships and/or are married to someone because of status, family, money, etc. It must be torture to be with somebody physically, but mentally, you’re thinking of somebody else. Somebody that you TRULY wanted to be with, but you can’t.

Can you just be honest with yourself for a minute? You know that you still think about him/her. Deep down in your heart you would be with him/her if you could. You can’t and won’t get this person out of your mind. They will forever be in your heart. You sometimes fantasize about “what if.” This person was special to you, and still is. Nobody else knows your thoughts and feelings but you. You wouldn't dare speak of it to anyone.

The thought of him/her brings a smile to your face. You sometimes wish that you had the courage to do what you really wanted to do. But you’re so focused on what others will think of you.

What about YOU? Shouldn't you have the choice to be with who you want to be with? It amazes me how family can say that they love you and that they’re behind you, but if you go against the grain, they’re quick to disown you. Hmm…That’s some real food-for-thought for some of you reading this. Love is NOT controlling.

People should be able to love who they want to love. You can’t help who you fall in love with. Why should anybody have to suppress their feelings? It’s just not right.

I hope this passage helps someone out there. Be with who you want to be with. Your happiness matters. Don’t allow what others may think about you to influence your decisions. It’s YOUR life! Love, be happy, and enjoy life! We only get one life, so why waste it?

Stand up for yourself, be courageous, and most importantly of all, be truthful to yourself. Be with the one YOU love!

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Open up your heart to receive the love that you deserve.

Let your past mistakes make you stronger and wiser.

Forgive yourself and be at peace.

Love yourself and see the best in yourself!

Respect yourself!

Be good to yourself!

Take care of yourself because YOU are important!

Leave your comfort zone behind.

Get out and see new things.

Experience all that life has to offer for you.

Be spontaneous!

Let down your guards!

Do things that bring happiness to you!

Smile and laugh, laugh and smile.

You’re on your way to being free!

LIVE and don’t just exist.

Make everyday count for something.

Create memories that will live after you’re gone.

Love, love unconditionally.

Allow yourself to be vulnerable, because it’s okay.

Communicate your feelings, don’t hold them in.

Be bold and stand up for what you believe.

Don’t settle for less than what you deserve.

Always remember how important you are.

Don’t allow anybody to keep you down.

Stand tall!

Keep your head up!

Never lose confidence in yourself!

We all make mistakes, nobody’s perfect.

Learn, grow, and do better.

Pay attention to life and life will show you many things.

Increase your knowledge and be open to learn.

Never underestimate what you can learn or do.

Give yourself chances and don’t doubt yourself!

To be free is to really live.

Live your life and live it well.

No more regrets!

No more shame!

No more thinking about what you should’ve done!

NO MORE!

LIVE! That’s all. LIVE and be free!

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I want you to take a close look at your life. Do you find yourself rushing all of the time?

Well, Think about THIS: We go about living our lives on a daily basis, and we have what we call a “to-do list.” We have to do grocery shopping, stop by the cleaners, pick our children up from day care/school, wash the car, walk and feed the pets, go by the bank. And the list goes on and on.

Every day we do what would be considered “the norm.” We get SO busy that sometimes we forget to slow down and appreciate life as it should be. Don’t get me wrong, all of these things that we do are important, but it’s also equally important to find a good balance with everything else in our lives. Learn to relax. Don’t be in a rush. Take your time, and remember to value the things that are truly important. Many people don’t realize just how valuable life is until something tragic happens. I’m going to give you an eye-opening example of what I’m talking about.

Do you take the time to hug and/or kiss your loved ones every day? Do you take the time to cook and then sit down with the family to enjoy it? Do you take time out of your day to just laugh, smile, or unwind from it all? Do you make time for “family time?” Do you take the time to ask your mate or somebody who’s close to you “How was your day” and be patient enough to allow them to answer and then talk about it? Do you take the time to say “I love you?” Do you take the time to sit down and have long, deep conversations?

Do you allow yourself time to do what you enjoy, or do you spend all of your time only doing what you HAVE to do? Can you sit through an entire movie or show without answering or looking at your phone? Are you too busy on the computer that you don’t even notice what’s really going on in your household? Do you allow your mind to take a break and rest? Did you stop doing something that you love because you feel like you’re too old? Remember, age is just a number. When was the last time, or have you ever taken a long train ride and enjoyed the sound, sights, and people around you?

I could go on and on, but I think that you get my point by now. We have to allow time for the things that really matter. Now that I’ve got your attention, it’s time for you to ask yourself: “What can I do to bring balance into my life?” When we know better, we should do better. You owe it to yourself. Live life to the fullest! Value what’s most important, and allow yourself to enjoy all of the peace that comes with it.

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“It’s so easy and convenient to buy our children gifts, but I encourage and challenge you to give them gifts that TRULY matter! The gift of unconditional love. The gift of encouragement. The gift of support. The gift of friendship. The gift of communication,understanding, and patience. The gift of guidance and support. The gift of quality time. And the gift of loving them for who THEY are. Material things are nice, but NOTHING compares to genuine love! Parenting should be taken seriously.”

– Author Stephanie Lahart