Stephanie Lahart's Blog - Posts Tagged "problems"

I dedicate this passage to the disowned. I can only imagine your pain. Someone who you thought loved you pushed you away and no longer wants to have anything to do with you.

How could anyone disown you because you got pregnant at an early age? How could anyone disown you because you married somebody of a different race? How could anyone disown you because you didn’t go to the school or college that they wanted you to? How could anyone disown you because you came out and told them that you were gay or lesbian? How could anyone disown you because you didn’t live up to their expectations? How could anyone disown you because you decided to become a different religion than they are? How could anyone disown you because you decided to get piercing and tattoos on your body? How could anybody disown you because you made a horrible mistake and used drugs?

How could anyone disown you because you didn’t take the route that they wanted you to go? How could anyone disown you because you had a biracial child? How could anyone disown you because your best friend is mixed with another race that they’re not fond of? How could anyone disown you simply because they can’t control you? How could anyone disown you because you decided to tell the truth about all of the bad things that were going on in the family and they didn’t want to believe or accept it? How could anyone disown you because you weren’t “perfect” in their eyes? How could anyone disown you because you decided to tell the truth? How could anyone disown you because you allowed alcohol to take over your life?

Let’s face it! Everybody makes mistakes in their life and they sometimes wish that they could turn back the hands of time, but they can’t. If you say that you love somebody, you can’t make the choice to disown them because YOU have a problem with what they did. I’m sure that if you took a good look at yourself, you’re not “Mr. /Mrs. Perfect” either.

We don’t have a right to disown or stop loving somebody just because we don’t like what they did or said. It’s not that serious. Unconditional love means accepting people for who they are. Showing real love is not by being controlling.

How could any mother or father disown their child? Your children are YOUR seeds. Just what are you saying to your children when you disown them? “I love you, but only if I can control what you are, what you become, what you do, etc.” Shame on you! It’s wrong and there’s nothing you could say that would make it right. How does your own family disown you? Aren’t families supposed to stick together? We should be able to call on our families for support and love. Above all, if nobody else accepts us for who were are, our family should.

To the disowned, don’t feel guilty for what you did or what you said. You are your own person and you did nothing wrong. Nobody in this world is perfect. Not even the person or people who disowned you. Remember that they are the ones with the problem. I know that it may be very difficult dealing with the fact that you were disowned, but know this: You are somebody! You are somebody VERY special! Don’t be ashamed of who you are!
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I know that you may be going through some really tough and trying times right now, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re still dealing with the hurt and the pain from your past, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you feel like giving up and throwing in the towel, but, please don’t, you’re going to be okay. I know that you feel like you just can’t take it anymore, but keep on pushing anyways, you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of being mistreated and misunderstood, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of everybody depending on you when you wish you had somebody to depend on, but, you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of always having to be the strong one for the family, but you’re going to be okay.

I know that you’re tired of your kids giving you a hard time, but you’ll be okay. I know that you’re tired of working long hours and still having to struggle to get by, but, no worries, you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of all the fussing and fighting, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of feeling lonely and wish that you had somebody to love, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of being sick in your body, but, by God’s grace and mercy, you will be healed. You’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of disappointing yourself and others that love and care for you, but it’s going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of pretending like you have it all together when all hell is breaking loose in your life, but be encouraged, ALL is well.

You’re going to be okay because our God is in control. He will give you peace in the midst of a storm. All you have to do is talk to him. There is no right or wrong way to talk to him. Just talk to him like you’re talking to a regular person. He knows all and he sees all. He knows our struggles. He knows our pain. He knows our disappointments. He knows, He KNOWS! We can depend on God to see us through. Make no mistake about that. He loves and cares for us. Everything works together for the good of those who love the Lord. Not some things, but ALL things. You’re going to be okay!
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