Stephanie Lahart's Blog - Posts Tagged "positivity"

Let me first start out by saying that fear will cripple you. It will cause you to lose out on opportunities that are right in front of your face. Fear will cause self-doubt in whatever you’re setting out to do. It will speak to you loudly, saying things like: “You’ll fail. You’re not good enough. What a silly idea, it won’t go anywhere. You’re wasting your time, it’ll never work,” etc.

Fear will cause you to miss out on your purpose in life. And if you’re not careful, fear will steal everything that God intended for you to have. Fear is like a monster in the dark. It comes out to scare you and take control over your mind, body, and soul.

There’s nothing positive about fear, and nothing good will ever come out of it. Erase fear from your vocabulary. Don’t allow fear to take over your thinking. No matter what has taken place in your life as a child, teenager, or adult, you are BIGGER than fear.

Say it, believe it, live it. Transition your mindset to think positively. Of course it will take time, but as with anything, if you keep at it, it will become a habit. Fear has no place in our lives. It robs us of everything that’s meant to be ours.
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I know that you may be going through some really tough and trying times right now, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re still dealing with the hurt and the pain from your past, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you feel like giving up and throwing in the towel, but, please don’t, you’re going to be okay. I know that you feel like you just can’t take it anymore, but keep on pushing anyways, you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of being mistreated and misunderstood, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of everybody depending on you when you wish you had somebody to depend on, but, you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of always having to be the strong one for the family, but you’re going to be okay.

I know that you’re tired of your kids giving you a hard time, but you’ll be okay. I know that you’re tired of working long hours and still having to struggle to get by, but, no worries, you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of all the fussing and fighting, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of feeling lonely and wish that you had somebody to love, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of being sick in your body, but, by God’s grace and mercy, you will be healed. You’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of disappointing yourself and others that love and care for you, but it’s going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of pretending like you have it all together when all hell is breaking loose in your life, but be encouraged, ALL is well.

You’re going to be okay because our God is in control. He will give you peace in the midst of a storm. All you have to do is talk to him. There is no right or wrong way to talk to him. Just talk to him like you’re talking to a regular person. He knows all and he sees all. He knows our struggles. He knows our pain. He knows our disappointments. He knows, He KNOWS! We can depend on God to see us through. Make no mistake about that. He loves and cares for us. Everything works together for the good of those who love the Lord. Not some things, but ALL things. You’re going to be okay!
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Women, I need you to listen to me closely. Stop allowing men to define your beauty. All of us come in different sizes and shapes. Learn to embrace what YOU were blessed with. Don’t be concerned about what others think of you. What’s most important is how you feel about yourself. Now, if you don’t like the way you look, make changes for YOU, not a man.

What’s sexy to one man may not be sexy to the next man. It’s the same concept when we look at men. All men aren't created equal when it comes to their body frame. Some men have very toned and athletic bodies, some are stocky and short, some are tall and thin, some men are overweight, etc. The point I’m trying to make is this: You can’t live your life trying to appeal to everybody. It’s pointless!

So what if you have a stomach. So what is you’re a full-figured woman. So what if you’re super skinny with no real shape. So what if you’re NOT thick. So what if you don’t have large breast. So what if you don’t have a round apple butt. So what if you have stretch marks. So what if you have cellulite.

REALLY! So what!

Self-love and self-esteem is so VERY important to have. When you love who YOU are, people can’t make you feel less than because you don’t apparently fit their standards in the way that you look.

Beauty is being unique! Beauty is NOT to be defined. Beauty is what you see in yourself.

If a man only sees you for your body, then he’s one small thinking BOY. You may need to think on that for a little bit. A REAL man will see the TOTAL package in you.

You’re beautiful!

You’re unique!

You’re beautifully blessed just how you’re supposed to be!

Believe that!

Written By Author Stephanie Lahart

Look at you. No, I’m serious. Take a good look at yourself.

Now reflect over your life.

You've faced many challenges, set-backs, hurt, disappointments, and loss.

But through it all, YOU’RE still standing. Standing strong in spite of it all.

Stop being so hard on yourself. Sometimes we don’t have control over what happens in our lives.

Although you may have had your fair share of not-so-good days,

Always remember that ANYTHING is possible!

Keep your spirit up, hold your head high, and BELIEVE.

Never stop believing! Never give up on yourself! Never doubt what you’re capable of!

Don’t look at the negatives. FOCUS on all things positive!

I want you to be encouraged today and everyday of your life from this point forward.

Give yourself a chance to do the unknown.

You can do it! I know you can!

May you accomplish great things in your life, and I pray that opportunities will start opening up for you in abundance. That’s my genuine HOPE for you!

Be encouraged! Not only for today, but for the rest of your life.

Great things happen for us when we’re least expecting it.

Keep a positive attitude and never forget who you are and what you represent.

You’re somebody!

No matter what struggles you've had in life, you've made it thus far.

You can’t give up now. No way!

Have courage. Be brave. Stand tall. Keep on trying. Step out of your comfort zone.

Believe – Hope – Aspire – Dream – Dare to make your dreams come true.

Written By Author Stephanie Lahart